Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

I have a couple of g/f's at one point of my life said you will be a bridesmaid at my wedding... that was a while ago and we aren't as close now. But they always remember. So far I have just dodged the ? all together but eventually I am going to have to say yes or no. How do I break it to people that I don't want them in it. I would love them as a guest though. I am just scarred that it will make people upset.

2007-06-29 18:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we are always so quiet, and I just don't know what to talk about...we go out to town, and we spend time together a lot, I ask him how was his work day and stuff like that, but what else can I talk to him about? I don't want to be always quiet...

2007-06-29 18:09:04 · 15 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm cute, smarty, funny and a lot of fun. but i'm really shy when i first meet people, making it really hard to initiate relationships. so guys...what is it that first attracts you to a girl? any tips on what turns you on, or would spark you to approach a girl? what can i do?
thanks.

2007-06-29 18:08:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 18:06:05 · 25 answers · asked by anamika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

About two years ago I was the MOH at my "best friends" wedding. Since then we have almost completely lost touch with each other. Part of me feels like I was in her wedding so its only right for me to ask her to be a part of mine. But at the same time another part of me, is saying you two aren't even close anymore. It's going to be a small wedding and I only want 3 bridemaids.

2007-06-29 18:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok theres this guy named luke and she really likes him but he really doesnt like her and he has told her that........... but she goes " He would be like the perfect guy for you but if u steal him li will never talk to u again...." and like hes so sweet and i really like him but idk what he looks like so i called her to ask her and she hung up on me an d like is being a real jerk!! what do i do? im so mad that i cant even talk to her on my my space.... but i talked to him on the fone with her right there and she was like dont tell him anything about you or he will call u every day.... and is allways trying to make me look like an idiot around guys she thinks is cute and she does it to every one! what do i do?????? help please and no stupid answers! thanks!

2007-06-29 18:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by cooleokellogg2007 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 18:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have not had much luck with internet dating and I don't want to go to bars. If you know of something/someplace specifically in the DFW area, TX that would be the greatest!

2007-06-29 18:01:11 · 10 answers · asked by miss lala 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who I met at New Year's..he is actually the first guy who showed interest in me, it has always been my sister.. We danced till hrs. in the morning, I had so much fun.. He asked me for my # & 2 days later flew to Boston b/c he works there. He kept text messaging me, showing a lot of interest, but I really didn't pay too much attention to him...he really seemed like a really good guy but I was busy with other things. A month later he stopped texting and I ignored him... Lately I have been missing him. I wrote him a letter to see how he was and said that he has been very busy with his work, no time for nothing. Little did I know that he is cousin with a classmate of mine who graduated me in high school. He told me that he was very interested in me & was asking him questions about me. He told me that he is a really sweet guy and he is very shy, reserved. He told me that he has a gf since april, I almost cried..I REALLY REGRET IT! you never know what you had until lost it

2007-06-29 17:57:21 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband recently took on a new job that requires him to work more hours and they are odd hours. All this week he is working from 5 in the afternoon until 2 in the morning and often times he just works until there is a break and he is allowed to leave with no set departure time. They have a no cell phone policy so he can't even call me on breaks and check up on me. We have a 7 month old daughter and currently I am taking summer classes. For about the past 3 months we have been home pretty much all the time together and im not used to not having his support and help. When he is home he just sleeps and drinks beer. I'm trying to finish my degree and currently I don't have a job so he is the sole supporter of the family. I am thankful for his job and the money it gives us but we rarely see each other, our sex life is gone and when we do see each other we are so frustrated that we just fight! Is it time to call it quits? By the way I'm 18 he's 23 and we have been married about 9 months.

2007-06-29 17:55:13 · 36 answers · asked by barbieisagoddess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 13 she's 11. When I touch her stuff I get in freakin so much trouble. When she touches my stuff then she breaks it, my parents say it's ok. How can I stop her? I don't bother yet she starts the arguement and I get in trouble.

2007-06-29 17:53:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister in law & I were good friends & sisters. I helped her move 2x's (w/my severe back problems) was there 4 her thru her marriage & ultimate divorce (alot of personal time & counseling - relationship and religious 4 her & husband). She planned a vacation to Florida 4 her son, herself & hubby. she moved out- needing another person 2 go in his place. We decided 2 send my 11 yo daughter (her son is also 11). I paid her $800.00 4 the ticket/hotel (which I thought was a lot) & I was sending my kid w/$100 spending money & $100 tword food. We took her son on vacation 2 years ago 4 free. She told me the night b4 they left that she would need $300 4 food I was shocked but sent the $. The day after she told my kid they may need 2 use some of the $ I sent her 2 buy trinkets w/4 food. I sent her another 100 instead. My kid was treated like a 3rd wheel & heard her talking about me saying I'm cheap. I am totally pissed & don't know what 2 do. I feel robbed & like I want nothing to do w/her

2007-06-29 17:49:23 · 5 answers · asked by painterswife 2 in Family

My ex roommate and ex friend of four years tried to copy me in every way. She copied my style, my hair, my make-up, she tried to latch on to my friends, my business you name it. Now she is dating my ex boyfriend (who totally broke my heart). I made her move out because of it, she totally threw herself at him. Why would she do all this?

2007-06-29 17:48:12 · 5 answers · asked by Been Copied 1 in Friends

I'v only got one friend I truly trust...and she's always been there. Is is bad I have only one friend like that?

2007-06-29 17:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been with my husband for 6 yrs. We have a child & 1 on the way.

Sadly our marriage has been hanging by a thread for some time now. We're becoming so incredibly different, and not in a healthy way. I'm 24, he's 27. In our early years, we liked to go out a lot, and you might even say we were bar flies. This past year, I have finally started to mature and want my life pointed in a different direction. For example, I want to be family focused,start going to church, maybe volunteer work, etc. While I like going out and doing things, I definately have no desire to live the party life anymore.

He seems to think that I'm calling quits on my life, and doesn't want to be "married to a grandma". His mentality is stuck at that of a 19 yr old's. His friends are huge drinkers, that barely ever work, and pathetically live at home still.
When we try to talk about it, there is no resolution. We argue until our faces turn blue. We both want the other to change.

Should I consider divor

2007-06-29 17:42:51 · 18 answers · asked by Lyndsey G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, My b/f and I were sitting at his house and we are both virgins, so we never let things get to hot in that direction. We started gettin pretty close and we were making out and stuff and he started touching and so did I. Neways, he started trying to take things alot farther, but I wouldn't let him. He said he had "Blue Balls" and that it hurt like hell. He wanted me to go down on him. I said no. What should I have done? Does it even hurt if a guy has that problem? What can you do to get rid of them? Thanks for all answers.

2007-06-29 17:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I completed 3 years of Math and Science, so I dont have to take it this year- YAY! But im pretty nervous about applying for colleges, and tuition. Im broke. I dont have $ not even for pictures, rings, yearbooks, or to go to the prom!!! But i dont think that matters to me, as long as I get into a college. Im majoring into Illustration. Any encouraging words? Things that can help me? Anything's acceptable!!! thank u truly.

2007-06-29 17:36:26 · 20 answers · asked by Evaの 6 in Friends

So me and my boyfriend got into a fight. He says i'm fat. so I tell him all the dumb stuff he does in his life and how i would be so much better without him. I leave the house go to the next door neighbors, I have a couple beers with them because i am so pissed off. I get really drunk. have sex with one of them. And then go back home. the next day we are still fighting so i go back over to my neighbors have sex with a different one of them. tape it. and then have sex with the one i had sex with the night before and tape that one to. I get home and said honey i rented a movie for us to watch. I poped it in the vcr. and it's me having sex with 2 different men. he gets so mad. I had the right to do that didn't i. I had to prove to him that i was atractive and he better watch out or he will lose me. He wont talk to me he moved all of his stuff out. Wont answer my calls. What did i do that was so wrong? plus on top of it all i think i am pregnant and i don't know who the father is.

2007-06-29 17:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I come from a very Christian home - we are all born again and have never spoken a cuss word. I take that back, I did accidentially once. But still. We grew up knowing it was wrong and I think it sounds unintellignet so I will never cuss. My parents still cough when then know a bad word is coming in a movie. And yet, today in the car my sister and I were fighting and my dad said I was a b**ch!!!!! I couldn't believe it!! I'm 13 and so I was in instant denial. I told myself he was joking and just thought I was a female dog. :0/ It really made me mad. And I'm such a softy, so even though I promised myself I wouldn't talk to him, I still felt bad when he said goodnight so I nodded. (He didn't know I heard him, he was talking to my mom when he said it) I don't want to talk to him about it beacause he didn't know I heard him...should I just get over it? I mean that's about the easiest thing to do, right?

2007-06-29 17:28:55 · 15 answers · asked by sillygoose112393 4 in Friends

i remember seeing old photos from my family where the bride wore two dresses. one for the ceremony and another for the reception. sometime si was one dress but the skirt came off to reveal a different skirt.

Do people still do this?

2007-06-29 17:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by dnt4get2luvme 4 in Weddings

So me and my boyfriend got into a fight. He says i'm fat. so I tell him all the dumb stuff he does in his life and how i would be so much better without him. I leave the house go to the next door neighbors, I have a couple beers with them because i am so pissed off. I get really drunk. have sex with one of them. And then go back home. the next day we are still fighting so i go back over to my neighbors have sex with a different one of them. tape it. and then have sex with the one i had sex with the night before and tape that one to. I get home and said honey i rented a movie for us to watch. I poped it in the vcr. and it's me having sex with 2 different men. he gets so mad. I had the right to do that didn't i. I had to prove to him that i was atractive and he better watch out or he will lose me. He wont talk to me he moved all of his stuff out. Wont answer my calls. What did i do that was so wrong?

2007-06-29 17:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking with this guy for a litle over a month. We talk non stop on myspace, texting, and calls. We talk a lot about things in our lives and all. We have never met in person but we share a lot. I know he is being honest and genuine when he tells me things. He says hes happy not being in a relationship. I have a crush on him. Lol......so how can I know if he likes me more than a friend or not? I constantly flirt with him...he doesnt with me.....but we have really good conversations. He asked me to have coffee with him and I said I couldn't.....because i wasnt able to. HELP!?!?!?!?!?

2007-06-29 17:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by Luvn'g Stars 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl and she says she only likes me a little but i like her alot how can i win her heart.

2007-06-29 17:11:14 · 25 answers · asked by brybry54321 1 in Friends

im 17 and my parents are soooo controlling nowadays!! i mean i do my house chores, get good grades and i feel i behave like im supposed to. but my parents want me to join a sport but im not a sporty person by nature but i lift weights and i like to work out. My mom made me feel soo guilty that i didnt join a sport because i said i wasnt going to do something just to please her because i was ultimatly going to be the one going to the practices and this year its going to be hard since im volunteering at a daycare nearby. And my mom said "god forbid you do anything to please us" and they think they can control who i marry i mean its ME getting married, not them! what do i do?? im a senior this fall so i can wait to get accepted to college and dorm there but how do i talk to them about their control issues?

2007-06-29 17:06:45 · 8 answers · asked by =) 2 in Family

2007-06-29 16:47:12 · 11 answers · asked by april z 1 in Family

I don't think I can take much more of this .

I can't stay here anymore... I need to leave as soon as possible. I don't think i am going to be able to tak college classes. I won't be able to pay for that and a place of my own. If she gets worse I'll leave hs and get my diploma later.. But for now I have to try and get my H S D

2007-06-29 16:46:17 · 6 answers · asked by nilleh 3 in Family

2007-06-29 16:46:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my family is normal we go to church and we are religous we respect our parents and we are not to wealthy and not poor but i was looking on my brothers labtop because he said i can so i was looking for music and i found discrete photos of people and it really shocked me with discute what is away to stop him from looking at it even thou i no its not my business i just want to help him

2007-06-29 16:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by elizabeth s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I handle all the finances and I wish that my husband would do it. The only problem with that is he was terrible at it. That is why I took it over when we moved in together. When we got married I was already handling everything. Sometimes it is very stressful and his ex-wife ruined his credit. Sometimes I feel like I am the husband and he is the wife. Does anyone else feel like they could step back in time to the 1950's and let the husband handle everything?

2007-06-29 16:44:27 · 13 answers · asked by csize 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is having a birthday real soon and I was wondering what I should get her. I think that if I baked her a cake she would really like it. Any other ideas would be very useful. I know that she is working really hard over the summer so I want to make sure that she feels relaxed and/or happy when she receives my gift(s).

2007-06-29 16:43:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends