ok theres this guy named luke and she really likes him but he really doesnt like her and he has told her that........... but she goes " He would be like the perfect guy for you but if u steal him li will never talk to u again...." and like hes so sweet and i really like him but idk what he looks like so i called her to ask her and she hung up on me an d like is being a real jerk!! what do i do? im so mad that i cant even talk to her on my my space.... but i talked to him on the fone with her right there and she was like dont tell him anything about you or he will call u every day.... and is allways trying to make me look like an idiot around guys she thinks is cute and she does it to every one! what do i do?????? help please and no stupid answers! thanks!
2007-06-29 18:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by cooleokellogg2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your friend is very insecure. Those kinds of friends are very hard to have. It is like walking on egg shells. It sounds to me like she wants all the attention from everyone and has a two year old temper tantrum when anyone else is in the spot light. I am not trying to be mean, but that is not a real friend at all. You don't need to be constantly competing with someone who wants everyone and everything for themselves.
To be honest, I think you would be better off without her, I am thinking that she will just continue to stir up drama to get attention and sooner or later you will be glad that she is gone!
Good luck!
2007-06-29 18:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by mrsmommaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're willing to risk a friendship on a guy that you've never seen, who your friend likes, and has asked you not to try to get to. So you ignored her and her wishes and now you are calling her names. I'm thinking you need to rethink your definition of friendship. I think you need to forget about "Luke" and understand that your friend probably doesn't feel good about herself so she feels like she has to hold you down or you'll either go out with guys that she liked first, or you'll leave the friendship. You need to be the friend you want her to be. Try to understand how she feels.
2007-06-30 01:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump that backstabbing friend!!!! tell her that your getting fed up!!!!! i think you should call that guy up and ask him on a date!!!! just remember friends support you they don't backstab!!!!! And my final piece of advice is to FOLLOW YOUR HEART!
2007-06-30 01:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thnk u shuld do wut u feel,I dnt wnt 2 b noise bt he mayb ur dream man,or sumtin dat coms once in a lif tim,its nt lik ur friend ant eva gunna gt a man,bt on da real,dat ant koo da way she do u,n athaz,bt any wayz,do wut u feel,listin 2 ur gutz n thoghts sumtimz,hope I kinda answa yo qustion,peace"(=
2007-06-30 01:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wilhens T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she treats you like that... then you shouldnt be friends with her!!! shes just being a ***** and you dont deserve that!!
2007-06-30 19:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Meghan(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drive the dump truck and dump your supposedly friend
2007-06-30 01:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋