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I'm 13 she's 11. When I touch her stuff I get in freakin so much trouble. When she touches my stuff then she breaks it, my parents say it's ok. How can I stop her? I don't bother yet she starts the arguement and I get in trouble.

2007-06-29 17:53:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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I am a little sister. I'm grown now, but when I was younger, I though my sister was the greatest. I used to go into her stuff just because I thought she was so cool. TRY to bear with her. My sister put a lock on her bedroom door to keep me out, but it really made me feel like she hated me.

Be nice to your sister. There's no one like her.

2007-06-29 18:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

Put your stuff away for a while that way she has nothing to touch. Also, ignore her! if you know arguing with her only gets you into trouble then avoid her as much as you can. When she sees that you are not going to play her games she will leave you alone. I'm not saying ignore her forever, but this will teach her a lesson. This lesson might take some time.

2007-06-30 00:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0 0

I can sort of relate to your situtation. I am 14 and my sister is 12. I don't touch her stuff because I know that if i did she'd throw a fit. She touches my stuff and I hate telling my parents because I figure they'd just say I'm over reacting. Everyone I talk to about this says I'm the older one and I need to be pacient with my younger sister. I think you should just sit down and talk to your parents about it. Because they just might understand. I wish you the best because I know that if they dont understand your screwed. Just make sure that your younger sister isn't home when you talk to your parents because if things dont go as planned, she KNOW that she can get away with things even more.

2007-06-30 02:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Justme 2 · 0 0

This is a problem with boundaries that I had with my sister and sometimes to this day still have.

I would leave your sister's stuff alone BUT padlock your stuff away. Yup, I mean hide it, organize it in a way she can't snoop too much, or put it someplace else. Tell her this "okay I can't touch your belongings but I would like you to leave mine alone." If that doesn't work with your sister (I'd try to resolve things with your sister first before heading to your parents, cause then they'll just think you're being a brat) try your parents and tell them this:

"okay I've listened to you two about respecting her space and belongings, but I'd appreciate it if my boundaries and belongings were respected as well." or "I'd like you two to support my boundaries and personal space the way you do with (you sister's name here)."

Don't say "it's not fair" because that very word--fair--causes many parents to ignore what you have to say and think you are whining. Appeal to your sister and parents by showing them a good example and reciprocating respect.

2007-06-30 00:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymousgirl 3 · 0 0

Its called sibling rivelry a natural event she's eleven so talk to her and explain what happens i'm sure she will realise she cannot do what she does and expect to get a way with it all the time

2007-06-30 01:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by cormucus 3 · 0 0

crap. in ur situationlike the only possibility is tto walk away..keep your door locked at all times..u can unlock it if u get one of those kits...or lockup yourstuff.

lil sisters ,especially step-sis 9 yrs yonger then u, r spoiled rotten brats--although at least real sis that arn't so young ucan still love

so ignore her..pretend she is not even there and only notice her when she is behaviing and being nice to you.....hey it works on dogs and we are animals too (ex: timeout)

2007-06-30 01:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dot -Xoxo 3 · 0 0

Try to talk with her,and tell to ur parents but the whole story like u just writed it here. And try to make them undersand ur problem. But u need to talk to ur parents siriusly, with a firm actitude.

2007-06-30 00:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think you should camly talk to your parents and explain what you said on here. they're probably just cutting her some slack because she's younger. but if you talk to them calmly, rather then yelling and telling them they're unfair, they'll listen more.

2007-06-30 00:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by heatherr 3 · 0 0

shes really immature. she shouldn't break the stuff if she is ELEVEN! just have a chat with her say you know we have to talk but be NICE!

2007-06-30 00:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by kelbel22 2 · 0 0

try to be patience with your sister. ask her to joint ur activity together and makes her close to you. explain to her how's good to be good to each other especially since both of you brother and sister.

2007-06-30 01:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by mayB 1 · 0 0

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