There is this guy who I met at New Year's..he is actually the first guy who showed interest in me, it has always been my sister.. We danced till hrs. in the morning, I had so much fun.. He asked me for my # & 2 days later flew to Boston b/c he works there. He kept text messaging me, showing a lot of interest, but I really didn't pay too much attention to him...he really seemed like a really good guy but I was busy with other things. A month later he stopped texting and I ignored him... Lately I have been missing him. I wrote him a letter to see how he was and said that he has been very busy with his work, no time for nothing. Little did I know that he is cousin with a classmate of mine who graduated me in high school. He told me that he was very interested in me & was asking him questions about me. He told me that he is a really sweet guy and he is very shy, reserved. He told me that he has a gf since april, I almost cried..I REALLY REGRET IT! you never know what you had until lost it
2007-06-29 17:57:21 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is that in his letter he only mentioned about work being the reason he didn't text back, he doesn't mention he has a gf. I even joked once and told him that "you must have a gf for keeping in touch with me," he denied it... He is a really good guy, I am so dumb...what should I do?? I don't want to lose him..
2007-06-29 17:59:50 · update #1
you guys are making me cry...I never had a bf, just lost a GOOD guy...
You guys are right (kicking my butt right now)
Lesson learned...BUT NOT GIVING UP ON HIM!!!
2007-06-29 18:05:55 · update #2
why do women do this! a good guy comes around..and you gals wont open your eyes! im in this predicament right now..someone i know just doesnt know..well, just take your right foot..and stretch out your right leg,swing back in a kicking motion and plant your right foot in your rear as hard as you can! you just have to learn..dont be a fool and do it again..good guys like that dont come around all the time..just be smarter next time k??
2007-06-29 18:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by raul d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let it go now that he's with someone else, but learn a lesson in how you look at people, and how you treat them.
Value the next nice guy more than you did him.
2007-06-29 18:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For now, move on and realize that your pattern of behavior is not going to work in relationships. This guy may break up with his girl friend and when he does, start rebuilding your friendship.
2007-06-29 18:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess you learned a lesson. And if it was meant to be then he'll contact you again. Just let things happen. Good luck
2007-06-29 18:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember this lesson and move on to the next thing in your life.
2007-06-29 18:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by I hate Comcast 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dang that sucks for sure! and that saying is so true... although... could it really work if he lived so far? try staying in contact with him.. like e-mails or texting and see what happens... maybe the girl hes with isnt "the one" .. you know? so good luck! never give up.. go with your heart..
2007-06-29 18:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by cinnimon2693 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happened for a reason....if this guy totally knocked your socks off in the first place you wouldn't have let him go. But who knows? I bet your paths meet again.
2007-06-29 18:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by littletricky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you have lost him. He is with another and it is unfair to break that up because you missed the boat on that one.
learn from your mistake and move on
2007-06-29 18:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this information on him having a gf is still unsure. my best advice to you is to find someone closer to home and cherish him.
2007-06-29 18:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by lelenguyen05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg me 2 but i never liked him and he liked me...alot...and i tried 2 ignore him 2 make him not like me then on valentines day he brought roses 2 skoo den i wuz all lyk omg he brought flowers 4 me but den he gave it 2 sum 1 else and i almost totally cried... but dat girl didnt like him and totally did not accept it... and den i wuz like so srry 4 him b cuz he wuz hart broken da whole day den i started 2 like him and thought that even dough i didnt like him i wouldve excepted it b cuz .she wuz lucky 2 have sum1 like her at all... lyk u sed u dont no wut u have till itz gone...
2007-06-29 18:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by akamaru13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋