Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i love him to death but I have this friend thats a boy and I call him my bestfriend because I can talk to him about anything..he's my ace. Anyways me and my "bestfriend" have this undeniyable chemistry that I cant ignore and the worst part is that we have had sex TWICE (yes, i cheated). I love my boyfriend but I think I love my "bestfriend" too. It's hard for because I cant just dump one... and I want both but I know thats impossible. With my "bestfriend" we do stuff with no strings attached yet we talk all the time and I have SO much fun with him. My boyfriend is my heart and soul the one I wanna be with forever but the chemistry is so undeniable I cant let go of it. What am I supposed to do?

2007-06-29 12:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by partyanimalkg12 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 12:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Singles & Dating

I havent seen my ex in about 2 yrs. I still have a lot of love for him and I might see him at a party soon. I want to talk to him but he hates me. Are there any ways I can get back with him or at least get him to talk to me?

2007-06-29 12:30:44 · 11 answers · asked by Desikinns! 4 in Singles & Dating

I am talkin about the women that had there heart broken and keep goin back to the dumb *** that broke there heart

2007-06-29 12:29:48 · 14 answers · asked by GRIM OF 05 1 in Singles & Dating

I can imagine remarrying after a first failed one, but continuing after a second failed one? I don't get that.

2007-06-29 12:29:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is it possible for a person to go through life without romance or passion, to never experience loving someone and having them love them back?

2007-06-29 12:21:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 12:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by michael t 3 in Singles & Dating

before i started having sex there were plenty of times i could and when i was in the position i just said no i dont want to do this or i stopped right there in the moment but i dated this guy for about 7 months and we started having sex but when we broke up id get in the same positions as before i started having sex but its like i cant say no.

am i addicted to sex or something?
and if i am is that normal.

it bothers me alot that i cant say no!
its hard to stop doing it. and that makes me sound bad.

i know some one is going to say well dont put yourself in that position then or your only 15 you shouldnt be having sex anyways but i already know that but i want to hear something else for once!?

2007-06-29 12:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by tasha 1 in Singles & Dating

I kinda like her.. we talk on occasion but not too often.. and she's about to get married in a couple of weeks.

Should I talk to her and tell her how I feel? Or just leave it alone? She might want a quick fling before she ties the knot lol..

2007-06-29 12:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by thegofessional 1 in Singles & Dating

Again, read my other questions to see my background please.... Recently, my fiance wrote me letter saying how I am the most beautiful, mature, wonderful, caring, strongest (and any other fabulous word you could think of) woman he has ever met. Well if I am all of these wonderful things, which I believe myself to be, why doesn't all of him want to be with me? Why would he risk losing me because he is so very scared of commitment right now? Why did he even ask me to marry him and plan our wedding if he was freaking out? This is so out of character for him. I can't even believe it. How do you go from loving and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone and them having your children to "I am scared because every married person in the world gets divorced" - that's his quote. So, really I want to know guys/girls, if I am all of these wonderful things, why does he not want it????

2007-06-29 12:04:01 · 19 answers · asked by BrusselSprouts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 and love Green Day, I like to talk about Billie Joe. My brother and Dad call him gay, and say he old (my father is 48 Billie is 35) they say he dyes his hair because it's easier to cover up bald spots. He's a nerd, and I really like Billie, he's my idol I look up to him, and it's hurtful I admit, I obsess, the reason for that is because I think he's amazing. The things I say are like "Green Day's new album is coming out Billie Joe says they have enough material for 3 records" and they freak. When I start to act silly my Dad tells me to stop being retarted! more than once in a day. I say something like "Dad, I'm just having fun" he tells me to "Stop whining like a baby." I am always the one he blames. And my brother is like his favorite. They are seriously making fun of me. WTF? My Mom tells them to stop, but then it happens again, Grr, I'm so upset. Why do they do this. It's not teasing it, making fun of me

2007-06-29 11:58:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

CAn anyone give me an answer. This relates to an earlier question of mine, and yes, all the advice is very good, and I should practice, but it still doesn't answer y I'm so insecure about a relationship that hasn't even begun yet, and is in the infant stages. I'm taking a lot of males stereotypes and applying them to my relationship, when i know I shouldn't since every guy is different. I know this is silly, which is y I want these doubts gone, but I guess I just wanna be prepared for when sh*t does go wrong. I know it's wrong of me to think like this so soon w/o any provocation, but I've heard of arranged marriages gone bad once the spouse reaches the states. ANy ideas of getting rid of my ridiculous paranoia that doesn't include counseling? Theres' no reason for any of this from my partner, just from society and what I've seen and heard about marriage in general, especially the arranged kind. Plz help, I'm going nuts!

2007-06-29 11:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is 21 and I've known her since we were 14.

Not only is her partner 40 years older but she's also a woman (which is fine by me, I just didn't even know she was gay until this)


She just told me and I've told her that I'm happy for her, which is true.

But I'm having a hard time understanding why she would want to do this. What I am asking is if you could help me understand this.

I'm happy for her just totally confused.

2007-06-29 11:47:32 · 10 answers · asked by megan f 2 in Friends

How do I make this a better situation. I am one of her bosses and I do not want to make this uncomfortable. I have been told to just let it be, but I have a beautiful wife at home and I feel that it is not fair to her to have this woman just hitting on me all the time.

I think she is a great worker, and is married too! I know she was having some problems at home and I think this is all how it started. I listened to her, a lot, and I think she has turned it in to something else.

Any advice on what to say nicely. I am not the kind of person who enjoys hurting someones feelings.

Thanks.

2007-06-29 11:44:15 · 50 answers · asked by geo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going on vacation with my wife and mother (for her 70th b-day) for a week in Hawaii. My mother is a bit quirky (read opinionated) and my wife has a low tolerance for real/perceived criticism. Any chance disaster can be diverted?

2007-06-29 11:42:19 · 13 answers · asked by skibum76 2 in Family

I suspect that my man is cheating. Is it wrong of me to go through his stuff to calm my suspicions?

2007-06-29 11:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by sometimes_i_wanna_die 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents ALWAYS say is something wrong when im acting down.. and there really is something rong but i dont want to tell them and i say no.. i just feel like i cant tell them anything.. and its really bad cuz i have no one to tell all my problems except to some of my best friends... i know they mean the best and they just want to help .. but like i have a girlfriend and they dont really know.. and im afraid to tell cuz they might make me break up with her which would suck cuz i really like her.. i just feel like if they knew all my problems.. theyd know me too much.. and they might not agree with everything.. and i just dont know what to do

2007-06-29 11:40:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-29 11:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dad has a cousin, who has a daughter. What is her relation to me?

2007-06-29 11:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they only want the skinny types...why not the heavier women....we have lots to offer to...

2007-06-29 11:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by spiffylucy 1 in Singles & Dating

My married friend, asked if we could go to a swingers club. He doesn't dare to ask his wife because she is too close minded. He said that we could go but we won't have sex with each other. We are pretty good friends but I am not sure if I should talk to his wife or just leave it alone, ignore it, and not mention it again. Your opinion?

2007-06-29 11:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by Deyla C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known my bf for 6 months now, and he is probably the most amazing person I have ever met. He's sweet, kind, decent, good-looking, and I am 100% certain he wants to marry me someday. We started dating a while ago, he's 18 and I'm 14, and I know that sounds bad, but we're both very mature for our ages. We live very far apart, and only know each other because he is my best friend's step brother. He even gets upset sometimes because he really wants to see me, and he doesn't even think he's good enough for me. ANYWAY... Of course we say 'I love you' all the time, we're actually kind of wierd about it, but lately he's seemed off. He asked me to take off my shirt for him, and I did it even though it kind of bothered me I really cared about him so I did, but once he realised how much it bothered me, he promised he would never ask me again. (This was on cam.) He then asked if I would do it in person, and I said yes for the same reasons. But now he's looking forward to it

2007-06-29 11:37:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandmother has a brother. What is his relation to me? He also has a daughter. What is her relation to me? His daughter had a baby. What is its relation to me?

2007-06-29 11:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and I are middle-aged, and fairly well off. Any blenders, ice cream makers, etc. I want, I've already bought. Although I'm moving next year and expect to buy a few new things. At my age and income level, I'm tempted to not have a registry. OTOH, I read on this board that people find it frustrating, and tacky (implying you're asking for cash) if you *don't* have a gift registry.

I've investigated honeymoon/travel registries. I like the idea, but they seem to be ripoffs as they help themselves to a hefty percentage. And I know about charitable donation registries.

Is it better for a middle-aged couple to have or not to have a registry? Any ideas will be appreciated.

2007-06-29 11:34:28 · 22 answers · asked by Ms. X 6 in Weddings

Why do so many girls think I'm unattractive before they even really know me? And if by chance someone did like me how come they dont tell me? I wish my crush liked me like I like her...
I appreciate your answers, Thanks.

2007-06-29 11:33:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont think that he wants to do it because people been saying things and i dont know if its true or not...!!!

2007-06-29 11:32:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok 2 start off, im in 7th grade. and my brother is in highschool. a few days ago, he found out i had a bf! i freaked at first cuz i thought he would tell on me. but he promised not 2 tell. then, yesterday, wen i got back from da park with my friend, my dad turned da tv off, and started yelling at me like crazy!! MY BROTHER HAD TOLD ON ME!! how boguz is that!!i got in SOOO much trouble! im grounded pretty much 4 the rest of da summer! and im stuck inside doin chores! my brother just laughed at me! i cant have friends over either. what should i do? i swear on everything im not talking 2 my bro ever again! ( plz if u have nothing helpful 2 say dnt say anything at all.)

2007-06-29 11:27:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been with my fiance for 4yrs. We have had our up and downs. We have had verbal fights as well as physical. He doesnt trust me going out with my friends or making new ones. I have lied about certain things in my past but the past is the past. The way I feel about him today isn't the same person I fell in love with 4yrs ago. Recently he took a job out of state and wants me to move with him. I have a good paying job and family here. I would be giving all that up. To move somewhere that I will not beable to find a job that pays as much. I also have met a guy that is so nice(no we havent done anything) and have had dinner a couple times as friends only. The thing is he is all I think about even when I close my eyes but he wasn't the settling down type. So I decided to go ahead and move in a month but now I am unsure. I need some advice

2007-06-29 11:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to know more about it. thanks.

2007-06-29 11:24:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok im gay, and me and my mom got into an argument over me being gay ,and SHE IS 2. She told me that i was old enough to choose what I want??? Im gay ,and im 16 now. She was serious. I have never looked at a girl in a sexual way. Ive seen a girl naked plenty of times but NOT AT ALL was i ever attracted to any FEMALE. I know its messed up, and I know your born gay. Comment my little dilemma please : /

2007-06-29 11:22:18 · 7 answers · asked by xxxlunarxxxlustxxx 1 in Family