ok 2 start off, im in 7th grade. and my brother is in highschool. a few days ago, he found out i had a bf! i freaked at first cuz i thought he would tell on me. but he promised not 2 tell. then, yesterday, wen i got back from da park with my friend, my dad turned da tv off, and started yelling at me like crazy!! MY BROTHER HAD TOLD ON ME!! how boguz is that!!i got in SOOO much trouble! im grounded pretty much 4 the rest of da summer! and im stuck inside doin chores! my brother just laughed at me! i cant have friends over either. what should i do? i swear on everything im not talking 2 my bro ever again! ( plz if u have nothing helpful 2 say dnt say anything at all.)
2007-06-29 11:27:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I agree with Lisa and Cassy M, you should consider giving your bratty brother a taste of his own medicine, and see how he likes it.
2007-06-29 11:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother that you are very disappointed in him for squealing on you and you will never trust him with any secret ever again. I don't think you should have been grounded for the summer. I think that is to harsh. There are worse things you can be doing than having a bf. I think you should go and talk to you mom or dad when they are not mad. Sometimes parents get caught off guard and don't know how to handle the news. it is like a big for them. How do they expect you to talk to them about the things in life that are natural. I know if they mad the way they do, how do they expect you to talk to them about anything. You'll be afraid you'll get into trouble and as a teenager you need your parents. I think you dad over reacted and thought by keeping you locked in the house over the summer, it would protect you. Tell your dad he can't protect you from growing up and from life.
2007-06-29 12:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by CARM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything to give your brother more pleasure in watching you suffer. Just make the best of your sucky situation and don't worry, karma will be back to get your brother.
2007-06-29 11:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust your brother ever again. You need to be more careful with your secrets in the future.
2007-06-29 11:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like they say 2 can play at that game, just act like it did not bothers you around him, and then when you have something that you can use agents him tell him that its okay that you wont say anything eather and when he least expects it rat him out. that way he can have a taste of his owen medicine and teach him to tell, but then again he is your brother and they will always try to make your like miserable.
2007-06-29 11:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cali~Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to be your person protector. It happened to me and sister too but didn't tell my mum, I tried to solve the situation but she doesn't want to listening so I have to leave her alone and forget the issue. Just be careful he is the right guy for you but not a playboy.
2007-06-29 11:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have
to kno a something
about him
so jus tel on him
trust me i kno how
u feel am like ur same
age and also have a high
skool brother
and it sux so yeh good luk =)
2007-06-29 11:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Cassy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know right now it may seem like a big deal, but trust me....It really isn't.
2007-06-29 11:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there just looking out for you and dont want you to get hurt it will blow over give it time
2007-06-29 11:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by mmedina96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you blabber a secret of his!
2007-06-29 11:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by lisa l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋