Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

My partner and I were going through a rough patch last year and he had a one night stand. The next day he told me about this and was remorseful and full of regret. Naturally I was gutted and devastated and opted to work things out as we have been together six years and live together. We are doing fine now but when he goes out I keep thinking about the night he went out and what if? How do you forget? I trust him but I can't stop going over it when he goes on a night out which puts me in a mood. What's the best way to move on?

2007-06-29 10:19:58 · 17 answers · asked by annemeiko 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am irish I have had to move back at short notice to look after my termanilly ill father. My gf thinks I have abandoned her and her daughter but i intend to come back as soon as things are over whats everyones views

2007-06-29 10:18:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he smelled like he had been drinking. I didn't say anything to my husband. When the Pastor left, my husband said, now what was that smell? I don't know what to do, we are so turned off now. BTW sometimes preaches about this same subject. OMG I have lost something for him. Should we leave? He will never admit it if we confront him.

2007-06-29 10:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your wife or g/f asked you to masturbate in front of her would you,or would you think thats weird?

2007-06-29 10:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by the_kikione 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you women really get turned on more by some men then others men ? cause i don't I get equally turned on by any man I'm attracted to to,but when it comes to whos better looking or who has the nicer body then then thats different.

2007-06-29 10:18:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 31yrs old and love hello kitty i have two daughters 8, & 4 should i stop buying this stuff like purses, jewelry etc..? oh i buy stuff for them too bcuz they like it ,but am i too old for this?

2007-06-29 10:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 22, kind of have a big belly(hey i had a BIG baby so i have an excuse), large up top and not real shapely in the right ways. Now that i've explained all of that, you understand why i'm having trouble finding anything to fit right. ANY advice or outfit specifics would be GREATLY APPRECIATED!! thanks :)

2007-06-29 10:15:13 · 13 answers · asked by clclc 2 in Weddings

Not a cop, just a regular guy. You know that you can carry a gun around right?

2007-06-29 10:13:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a two year old son. His father don't want to help me take care of him and he rarely sees him. I gave him an option that he could either (1) visit or pick his son up 2 times a month. I told him that I don't want his money. I just want him to spend time with his son. OR (2) I could go to child support and let them deal with this sitution.He told me to do what you got to do. Mind you he don't have a job and I really dont want to do this. But I've done everything in my power not to go down this road. So now he's mad and want to curse me out and act as if I didn't give him an option. But at this point I feel Like i'm forced. Do you think I'm wrong?

2007-06-29 10:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by aadams9783 2 in Family

my husband is deploying in a month. lately i've have highly emotional. i'm feeling depressed and then getting mad at my husband, but i feel guilty about it. i'll feel fine but then find myself feeling very irritated for any little thing. i don't want to feel this way but i can't help it. i want to support my husband because i love him and be there for him. two things i can think of either i'm pregnant because i have the symptoms and i'm a week late OR i'm PMSing bad. any advice or something please. :(

2007-06-29 09:59:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me start by saying I was married for almost 18 years, got divorced made some stupid mistakes and lied to get myself out of them. I have been trying to get back with my ex-wife but i thaink from all the things that have happend that may no longer be an option. I am trying so hard to show her that I can never do such harmful things to her again, but i think she may be past all of this. she recently started to date and its killing me not that i didnt also but now i know what it feels like to be on the other side of the equasion since she told me she really likes this guy who has more to offer her money that sort of stuff. i can only offer myself and my love and being faithfull and no more lies.

2007-06-29 09:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Jev 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has short time sex i dont have orgasm
im female 30 age
what can i do?

2007-06-29 09:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am an INDIAN and live in LUCKNOW (UP) .My wife left my house in 22 june 2006, can i get a divorce as there is no contact and no relation with her .?
I was married in 1997 (arranged) and since then the in laws had lot of invovement in my personnel life,i purchased a house worth 20laks in her name (all payments done by me and ther is a loan too in my name from ICICI),on 22 june 2006 she left my house taking out all gold etc and she also never loved me and my daughter.she has not come back and she has since then not bothered to see her daughter too. I am passing a hard time as the basic education ,upbringing is a trouble for me for my daughter. can i get and how could i get a divorce .I have written and sent letters to ssp LUCKNOW THROUGH REGISTERED POST,plz help,i have not gone to court till now as i am in private job .what should i do to get a divorce

2007-06-29 09:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never met anyone. I don't believe they exist. If they do, I would want to know when they celebrate their birthday, Febraury 28th or March 1st. Also, how the hell did their parents explain that one to them?

2007-06-29 09:54:04 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

when men drink and get drunk are they always nasty i mean say nasty things to you then when they are sobber and you tell them they say you made it up!! do all men do that or is it just my man?? as he really puts me down with the things he says to me.

2007-06-29 09:51:45 · 4 answers · asked by Debbie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my "friends" got dumped and all her friends ditched her and stuff cuz shes really wierd.. so i was nice to her and now she wont leave me alone!! She calls me almost everyday and everytime she does something she has to call me and tell me! She wants to come to my house all the time and i just cant take her anymore!! But i feel that if i tell her how i feel she will just get all depressed again... what should i do!?

2007-06-29 09:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by Amy J 1 in Friends

I was married in 1997 (arranged) and since then the in laws had lot of invovement in my personnel life,i purchased a house worth 20laks in her name (all payments done by me and ther is a loan too in my name from ICICI),on 22 june 2006 she left my house taking out all gold etc and she also never loved me and my daughter.she has not come back and she has since then not bothered to see her daughter too. I am passing a hard time as the basic education ,upbringing is a trouble for me for my daughter. can i get and how could i get a divorce .I have written and sent letters to ssp LUCKNOW THROUGH REGISTERED POST,plz help,i have not gone to court till now as i am in private job .what should i do to get a divorce.

2007-06-29 09:45:38 · 26 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 8 years & my bro in law (sis husband) is good friends with my ex. Me & my ex husband do NOT get along for many different reasons, it was a horrible divorce, & everyone in my family is very well aware of this. I have a boyfriend now, who I have been with a little over 2 years & who I plan to marry. So naturally I bring him around for family events and etc...What is bothering me is that 4th of July is coming up and I'm concerned that my brother in law is going to invite my ex husband over. This makes for an uncomfortable situation, not only for me but for everyone. I know he's my brother in laws friend but I feel it's disrespectful to everyone to do this. I know how my parents are, and they will probably feel awkward because it's like okay,so do we talk to him? Do we not? I just think that him being there will make everyone walk on egg shells when we should all be comfortably enjoying ourselves. Not to mention, he is no longer a part of this family. Any thoughts?

2007-06-29 09:40:14 · 36 answers · asked by glittereyedg 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a man have been cheating on his wife all their marriage,I also know her,she is a very jealous woman,she would divorce him if she know. I also feel very sorry for her because she do not know. should I tell her?

2007-06-29 09:39:39 · 35 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 09:38:16 · 31 answers · asked by Lue R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I first met my current boyfriend I had a boyfriend on which i cheated on with my current boyfriend, but we didn't have a good relationship, he was more of a friend, my boyfriend has trust issues, and this is one of the things he brought up. This was a 1 time thing it's not something I do, or had done previously, how can I get him to trust me

2007-06-29 09:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by chi_girl2002 2 in Singles & Dating

Where you move from school to school to school to school until finally you stop moving and you don't like it
I liked my old school .I hate my new school. Are there other people who have/had to deal with moving.
I forget to keep in contact with all of my friends
At the school I'm at now , I hate it .I know that I'll never find a friend as great as the one that's going to a different school.I was my self for once.I try and keep in contact but that plan fails
Because they're not there so you can talk face to face

2007-06-29 09:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Inahzi13 5 in Friends

going in Aug with hubby and 21 yr old son and his girlfriend. We are going to Maine and I want to play some pranks on my son's girlfriend, nothing bad or hurtful...just something really good. Any suggestions...also they told us they have something planned for my hubby and I. thanks.... :)

2007-06-29 09:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by just me :) 3 in Family

we got in this big fight and i cant get a hug out of her she says she forgives me but i cant have a hug :[[

2007-06-29 09:31:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She is more involved in helping with the wedding than even my own mother, but she keeps complaining to everyone in her family about how horrible I am because I'm not giving her enough involvement. It started because my mom bought the flower girl dresses and she wanted to make them but it was too late. She's even calling her son (my fiance) behind my back and talking bad about me. HELP!!!

2007-06-29 09:29:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am looking for specific chair covers. I DONT WANT THE WHITE POLISTER CRAP WITH THE UGLY SASH THAT EVERY SINGLE WEDDING HAS, but im looking for the designer ones with patterns and no sashes... i once saw it in a magazine and ripped out the page, but the page does not have the company on it. can somone please please help me!!! i've googled it for days and have found nothing. thanks in advanced

2007-06-29 09:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

What is he thinking? He thought it would be better if we lived apart for a while,and I agree.The kids aren't really understanding it all.So I got a place, getting everything slowly but surely, but almost everyday when I say i'm going to my place(kids are sleeping at his becuz I didn't have new beds until yesterday)he tells me I can stay and eat and even stay the night there if I want?And even gone as far as waking me to go get into bed.But everynight he's playing his game.On sun. I went to be with the kids but they were at the movies and he played his game,barely talked to me,but then invites me to dinner with them,and told me I didn't have to go back to the apartment I could stay there.He is acting nicer and i'm thankful for it but why?Why now?
A little 411-we have been together for more then a decade but in the last 1-1 1/2 yrs. it seems that we fight and argue about anything but nothing.Neither one of us wants our family to break uphowever neither one of us are backing down

2007-06-29 09:25:52 · 18 answers · asked by bjustnape 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my older half brother always gets more praise and attention than me because he makes straight A's. am i the only one w/ this problem?

2007-06-29 09:25:33 · 18 answers · asked by zey♥ 2 in Family

2007-06-29 09:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm at the pharmacy and this woman comes up to me and says, "I dont know how to tell you this, but if it were me I would want to know....I saw your husband at the bar the other night and he was bumping and grinding with this woman on the dance floor. She said, in her opinion, he should only be dancing like that with his wife. To me, it must have looked very bad for someone to feel so compelled to tell me that. I just think thats wrong. If you are married and cant "reasonably" dance with someone else, then you shouldnt be dancing at all. Am I wrong? I dont dance like that with other men. The only one i want rubbing all up on my body like that is my husband; and he obviously dont' share that point of view.

2007-06-29 09:21:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce