my husband has short time sex i dont have orgasm
im female 30 age
what can i do?
2007-06-29 09:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
long forplay
don't let him in you till you are ready to pop
forplay can be amazing if you keep putting off the fireworks
2007-06-30 13:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. It is something you're going to have to control with him if he is able to handle it. For instance when you know he is getting ready to have an orgasm, change positions or make him stop while you try something new. Distracting the moment can make things last longer for you. Hopefully, you'll obtain what you're looking for. Also, if you spend time watching porn or masturbating before sex you'll be all the more closer to an orgasm when sex begins and your chances of obtaining an orgasm will grow.
2007-06-29 17:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOREPLAY girl, foreplay...it lengthens short sex situations. Start out the foreplay, rubbing each other, hitting each others spot, maybe get him to get you off oraly or manually before the intercourse begins.....introduce toys, during foreplay they can add all sorts of excitement. Me and my husband had the same problem, and we figured out that if we extend our foreplay, it makes our sex much better. Try different positions, try things that you havent done...all those things make sex hotter and interesting.....good luck
2007-06-29 17:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should tell him to stop being a "one pump chump" why does the woman always have to change or masturbate before sex so she can reach a orgasm during intercourse.. wtf selfish man pig,, he can masturbate 20 or 30 minutes before sex so he does not ejaculate so quickly or i would find a man who could men that are good in bed are out there you just got to look.
2007-06-29 17:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, the old pre-ejac prob.....ummmm....more foreplay. Take more control. Don't let him go to town and forget you're there, cause it turns into it being all about them. When it's all about them, they don't know how to stop or control themselves. Take charge, woman!
2007-06-29 17:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more foreplay is one way to go..i have at times "finished" before my wife has..i will perform oral because I enjoy it as much as she does..the satisfaction of knowing I am pleasing her gets me ready to go again..have him try pleasing you orally or with toys..plus there is the added anticipation of having you tell him that you no longer want oral or the toy but want him..
2007-06-29 17:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by sportsfanstl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. Ask him to spend a little more time with foreplay.
I was married to a minute man at one time...but he didn't care so long as he got his nut he didn't care if I got mine. Shame shame...but he's someone elses problem now. Did you get my X minute man?....lol.
2007-06-29 16:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you be willing to try toys. Stimulate yourself . Let him help you. Get into long fore play
2007-06-29 17:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of foreplay. oral sex .toys? does he have erectile dysfunction? go to the dr if he does.
2007-06-29 17:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by lil ol me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm sound like you need to talk to him and show him what you like to have done to you...so you can have your orgasm
watch a porn movie and do as they do so it can spice thing up
BUT REALLY TALK TO HIM
2007-06-29 17:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by shayhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋