why don't the wife know her husband is cheating?

Question

I know a man have been cheating on his wife all their marriage,I also know her,she is a very jealous woman,she would divorce him if she know. I also feel very sorry for her because she do not know. should I tell her?

Answer 1

It's their business. If you insert yourself into the equation, you may be asking for trouble.

Answer 2

Is she a close friend? Or his he? Either way you better be prepared for the backlash that's going to happen. Beacuse if you tell her and she doesn't believe you, the **** is going to hit the fan. The husband will probably come after you and she will never talk to you again. Marriages are a tough thing to involve yourself in, some couples have a wierd understanding about that stuff. You also need to be carefule if there are children involved. Just think about it before you do it.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Listen....You are assuming this wife doesn't know about her cheating husband. But you might be wrong! Perhaps she does know but she has decided not to do anything about it...It's her marriage and it's her decision, so I think you should keep your mouth shut.

It's OK to feel sorry for her; but if you tell her who knows what might happen. So be careful and don't be the one who spills the beans. IF she finds out- let it be through someone else!

Answer 4

well, some men are very good at covering their tracks. They can play a good game.... Thats why they are called "players" If you are a close friend to this person/couple, you are going to have to think what will happen if you say something.. You may lose their friendship.. The guys for sure . Hers maybe not, Either way.... you are going to be in the middle of the situation., as the one who spilled the beans..

Answer 5

If you truly think that she will benefit from it. Can she afford a divorce? Do they have kids? Etc...... If you think it would do harm than dont but if she can handle the events that follow than be a good man and tell her....its horrible the way she is being cheated on.

Answer 6

What possible reason can you suggest for your getting involved in their marriage.

You would do well to stay the hell out of others relationships.
I know that the if some nosy jerk came telling my wife gossip about my whereabouts or actions they would feel my wrath.

Answer 7

Your best bet is to turn your head to this matter. This wife is probably already on top of it, and may be waiting for the right moment to lay the chips on the table. Women have that 7th and even 8th sense about them. Ever hear of Karma?

Answer 8

I would say not to tell her....WHY? You said she is a jealous women. I would suspect she already suspects or already knows of a few of his indescretions. She is too embarrased to let anyone know that she knows. My guess is she wants to stay in the fantasy because she may feel she needs the marriage or is afraid to leave it.

Answer 9

You know something that isnt a good way; cheating !

Well just tell her and let them solve the problems, its unfair for a wife whom doesnt know that her husband cheating.

Justice for all!

Answer 10

hi there look if this wife has a jealous strike it is because she is aware that he is cheatting on her .....but this very common thata wife chooses not to see what is going on under her very nose .....if i was you i would keep youre nose right out of this as the minute you say anything ....all hell will break loose and believe me it will all end up being youre fault .....so let them get on with it and it will come to blows in it's own time take care xx

Answer 11

Dear Jstmaaa:

Tell her if your her true friend let her know what's going on. Be gentle and kind in the process. Ask to help her through this too. Like some examples: What can I do to help? or How can I help?

Sincerely,
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