what to wear to a wedding as a guest?

Question

I'm 22, kind of have a big belly(hey i had a BIG baby so i have an excuse), large up top and not real shapely in the right ways. Now that i've explained all of that, you understand why i'm having trouble finding anything to fit right. ANY advice or outfit specifics would be GREATLY APPRECIATED!! thanks :)

Answer 1

I've had good luck at Talbot's. Kind of a more classic look and they have a big sale going on right now.

http://www.talbots.com

Answer 2

Try a flattering pair of slacks, some small heals and a nice top in the wedding parties colors. You certainly do have an excuse for the extra curves right now.

My guess is your friends who are getting married won't worry about what you are wearing so much as that you are there on their special day.

Best of luck in choosing an outfit and congratulations on the baby!

Answer 3

It's funny you should post this question because I am plus sized (18 on the bottom, 22 on top!) and have a wedding to go to on July 7th! I hate getting dressed up because of my size! I think if you're trying to conceal your tummy, try and get a top that's made of a flowy material (poly/spandex?) that has a bit of a print to it (not too busy) with an empire waist. The empire waist is flattering to the shape and a print will draw away from the imperfections!

Answer 4

Try the latest style of "smock" dresses and tops that look almost like maternity dresses except that this style is in for everyone! Choose a dark color and pair the top of with nice dressy capri pants and a wedge heel. Or try the dress and dress it up with some nice simple jewelry! This are loose in the belly area!!! I hope this helps! Stay away from stretchy fabric!!! Good Luck!

Answer 5

Wear what you feel comfortable in. If you would wear to church, then it should be acceptable for a wedding. Nothing white, obviously. I'm a plus size woman also and you can find some very pretty clothes out there. Try Fashion Bug, Cato Fashions, (if you have those in your area) or any Layne Bryant stores. I'm sure whatever you choose will be in good taste and lovely on you anyway.

Good luck in your search.

Answer 6

How about an empire waist dress? I am pregnant and was a wedding guest the other week. I wore a nice, knee-length black dress with a high waist (just below the chest)and large white floral pattern. Avoid small patterns of any kind! empire waists usually accentuate your bust and are flattering for the rest of your body. Wear high heels if you can, makes you look taller and slimmer.

Answer 7

I am plus sized (16) and the outfit that flatters me most is a pair of brown slacks, a fitted white button up shirt with 3/4 sleeves with a spaghettie strap shirt underneath that matches the slacks, with brown stilletos.

Answer 8

perhaps an outfit you would wear in the business world? a nice jacket up top can help if you are feeling a little uncomfortable. ( no idea when this wedding is so i hope it's not too hot). nice dress jackets on people look great at weddings. :)

i would not wear a sundress, no matter how hot it is or if it's outside.

Answer 9

Here's a couple of sites that offer appropriate dresses in sizes that will accommodate big tummies, and complement your shape, no matter what it is.

On the second site, in particular, each dress is marked with symbols that show what body shape it will look best on.

Answer 10

you can get a wrap around dress, they cover flaws nicely. Or you can get a tight undershirt, with a looser light colored top, and wear a longer skirt, one that goes past the knees but not to your ankles.

You can wear pretty much anything as long as it is dressy/formal. but try to steer-clear of clothing that show too much cleavage!


here is an idea for an outfit
this shirt http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5751229
with this skirt http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5751255
with something like this underneath to hide flaws http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5189272