before i started having sex there were plenty of times i could and when i was in the position i just said no i dont want to do this or i stopped right there in the moment but i dated this guy for about 7 months and we started having sex but when we broke up id get in the same positions as before i started having sex but its like i cant say no.
am i addicted to sex or something?
and if i am is that normal.
it bothers me alot that i cant say no!
its hard to stop doing it. and that makes me sound bad.
i know some one is going to say well dont put yourself in that position then or your only 15 you shouldnt be having sex anyways but i already know that but i want to hear something else for once!?
2007-06-29 12:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by tasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and its not like they make me i just cant say no and sometimes i dont even want to but then sometimes i do.
its like i dont like saying no cause i want anyone to like me or something i dont know im reele confused!!!
2007-06-29 12:21:05 · update #1
I would ask your parents advice.
If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to have them know you have sex.
Perhaps your mom has a story from her days as a 15 year old that may help.
2007-06-29 12:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by brettj666 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to think before you get into the position if you really want to sleep with this person. If the answer is no you need to stop before it gets far. Don't let him touch you down there unless you're sure you want to take the next step. Tell him ahead of time and stick to your word. In the moment, you may tend to feel like YES but that's not what you need to base the decision on. You only need to sleep with someone if you truly love them, if not when you get older you'll regret how long your list has gotten. And you're only 15, you have many more years to have sex so stick with one person or wait until you find him. You don't want a long list before you're even an adult. It's not healthy, physically, emotionally, or mentally. Not to mention you'll be known as a whore and nobody wants that. Be safe and be smart about it. You started having sex, and that's a grown up decision so you need to act mature and get on birth control and use protection EVERY time. Safe sex is the best sex. But I really hope you save yourself for marriage, or at least until you're in a meaningful relationship. Best of luck to you.
2007-06-29 19:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by itzbinka07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does make a person feel good, and now that you know what it feels like, you may crave that feeling. Just be careful, some of the guys that are all about sex, share more with you than the intimate act.
2007-06-29 19:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are older, you are gonna look back on this behaviour with regret. I cant say you are addicted, but I would venture to say that you are looking for someone to love you, and you are doing it to get love....my dr phil moment. So, change the behavior and realize that you can be loved without giving it away all the time. Please realize your own self worth and wait until you are actually with someone you love and care about, and make sure you enjoy it when you do it...life is too short!
2007-06-29 19:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the thing is that b4 having sex ur virginity was ur stopping force but since u lost it it is much easier for u to give into all your carnal desires,,, n ur not addicted and ye sit is normal jsut try some more sel fcontrol,,, n try not to let yourself get in some positions until ur in a relationship
2007-06-29 19:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not addicted to sex...you're human.
If you're going to do it, go on the pill and make sure he covers up. Better safe then sorry.
Not to mention...be careful for your mental health too. Sleeping around makes sex not seem like a big deal.
2007-06-29 19:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by The one and only 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dial a toll free hotline that deals wih that problem....
Try reducing the amount of time you have sex per day/week
substitute things/activities for sex
start appreciating yourself for who you are
2007-06-29 19:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 15!!!!!! im 14!!!!!!! do not have anymore sex!!!!!
being addicted is ok just don't do it for fun. do it because u love someone. but not at this age!
2007-06-29 19:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES, you are addicted and you have a problem. seek counseling and deal with it. its the only way you'll ever going to get to the root of it.
2007-06-29 19:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want to have sex
2007-06-29 19:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋