they only want the skinny types...why not the heavier women....we have lots to offer to...
2007-06-29 11:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by spiffylucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I am wrong then tell me what I am doing wrong? I am on several dating sites (for months) and not a bite? Need some advise...
2007-06-29 12:18:46 · update #1
We don't - it's as simple as that...
Or perhaps I should say that the stereotype of ALL guys going after the "dumb little blonde twig girl with the big rack" is dead and buried (thank god!)
REAL women have curves - and it's those curves that drive MEN (not boys who simply don't know better) wild!
And on top of that - compassion and intelligence last for a lifetime. Time (and gravity) can ruin Barbie's looks after just a few years ;););)
2007-06-29 12:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what dating site you are using, but you shouldn't think that the only reason why you aren't getting any "bites" is because of looks. Some guys do not think anything of dating a heavier woman. Some of them actually want that over the skinnier women. Don't lump all guys together. Keep your head up and don't worry about it so much. Your guy will come along. He will believe you are the most beautiful woman that ever walked the earth.
2007-06-29 14:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's completely untrue. I've had more men wanting to date me since I've gotten pretty chubby than before when I had a model looking body. It all depends on a person's preferences--not all males think alike. As a matter of fact I am happy to report now I can date people who are into me for what I have to offer instead of just because my body looks a certain way. The guy I've been with would have a heart attack if I got barbie thin because he loves my body just the way it is.
2007-06-29 11:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Missy K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, Barbie became copied from a doll called Bild Lilli, who became a character in a german caricature. She became a characticature of a warm chick, so she became modeled on the common guy's theory of what a woman would desire to look like. this does not advise that a woman has to look like a Barbie doll to be alluring, yet quite if a woman resembles barbie she is one among the main well-liked chicks on the city. easily adult men prefer women human beings to easily jerking off returned, so a woman does not would desire to look like Barbie to be needed. Judging with the aid of you r 360 %, you could anticipate that adult men will think of you're surprisingly adequate, and in the event that they get to appreciate you and the best thank you to get excitement from each and each of the failings that make it a excitement to be around you, they are going to forget all approximately Barbie doll women human beings. we gained't see what you look like from the neck down, so which you're fat, yet you have adequate attractiveness on your face which you may discover some guy who may well be actual overjoyed to be your boyfriend, you're able to would desire to decrease your standards a lot nevertheless.
2016-10-03 07:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by ehinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, as a collector I know the difference between fantasy and reality. Barbie is only a toy of fantasy that is inferior to humanity. The media in print, film, and television has refused to clearly define the difference in the digital manipulated images of there human models and real natural humanity . They have pushed this in the eyes of boys and men decade after decade. The fathers have passed it down to their sons. This is the majority of society in my opinion based upon my observation of many years. Therefore, most guys are programed to think that the fantasy standard of beauty is the one that is to be coveted and acquired. It is most acceptable by their parents, friends, and peers by their responses toward those types of females unlike the natural ones. It is the insanity of humanity that is the major problem.
2007-06-30 12:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by maybf22000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sooo wrong about this. Yes there are a lot of guys in the world that are attracted to the skinnier girls...but that is usually a very immature, young guy you are talking about.
I am currently dating two guys that both like me for who I am....and regardless of the fact that I have a few extra pounds, they are extremely attracted to what I have to offer.
Be patient....you will find one.
2007-06-29 12:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by Scrapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs. Oink oink!
No offense to yall, but how can you say it isn't true? It's a well known fact (awful as it seems) that men (oink) usually prefer the more curvy barbyish types. I don't think Lucy is trying to say that guys want anerexic chicks, but rather that guys usually would pick a barbie look-alike instead of a more heavy-set woman.
2007-06-29 11:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you got the wrong guys in mind. most guys i know like big boobs, and round butts and sexy legs. thin lovers well dont know sex at all.
2007-06-29 11:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your generalizing. I cannot stand skinny women. They get lost in my bedsheets.......
2007-06-29 11:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋