Why cant I find someone to love?

Question

Why do so many girls think I'm unattractive before they even really know me? And if by chance someone did like me how come they dont tell me? I wish my crush liked me like I like her...
I appreciate your answers, Thanks.

Answer 1

remember this there always someone out there for everyone and if they don't like you its their freaking lost

Answer 2

Attractive is viewed on a few levels. It's not always about physical attractiveness, but a lot of it is attitude. If you look around a crowd, you will notice that the prettiest girls date some of the ugliest guys, so what is it about them? It usually has to do with how outgoing they are and how they present themselves. If you look further, you will notice these guys have a lot of self confidence. If you look further still, you will notice that the women that seem most approachable are the ones smiling and looking happy, so make sure you look the same way.

Women can sense insecurity surprisingly well, so you just have to come off as positive as you can. You also have to not seem too eager or too needy. Woman can be rather superficial, but you can overcome this with a positive attitude in some cases.

Answer 3

I felt like that once. But now, I'm in a great relationship. Don't worry dude, when the time comes, you'll meet the right person. Trust me on this. There's such a thing a "the right person." For now, work on YOURSELF. Start looking better, learn to have a sense of humor, don't act gay and act like a man, lose weight, learn to respect women, get an education to make enough money to have something to offer. After all these, ask a girl out. My dad says, if you knock on a hundred doors, the right one will open sooner or later.

Answer 4

First off rejection is part of life which at times is often unfortunate . It happen though you should feel good about yourself anyway women are weird and even if you have a GF you still won't understand them. Confidence in yourself is key. Be down but pick yourself back up again it's all you can do. Some guys gets tons of women others don't get any. So you don't have to be Don Juan be yourself and be sure in yourself and the right girl will come along.

Answer 5

Well, if any girl judges you by your looks automatically....they are losers. They are only worried about image. Which is sad.

Give it time. Someone will come along and think that you're gorgeous inside and out. I know it might seem unrealistic, but I promise it will happen...

Have you told your crush that you like her? Maybe she likes you....never hurts to try.

♥Good Luck♥

Oh, and, when I added you as a friend, I added you because you seemed cool, and your 'About Me' on your profile was a lot like me...so, if we can agree on things, then I'm sure there is hope for you...because I rarely meet someone who does/sees/acts the same way as myself. She'll come.....

Answer 6

because some girls are like that. they judge a guy by first impressions. they dont really care about their personality. they just care what people will think if they dated a jock or a gangster or a rock head. they dont look deep into personalities they just want to look good on the boy's arm. and don't worry. that special someone will come around shortly. good luck. =)

Answer 7

Sorry about that
the thing is most girls wont tell
i know i wouldnt
if your too afraid to make a move hint her onto it =]
start talking to her and say "hey ____ (<--name) can i ask you a question about this girl like" she should say something like "ya sure" and then say "well i dont know if she likes me i really want to know, what do you think i should do, i dont wanna be hurt" she will tell you how and do what she said =]
hope i helped

best wishes
-natasha xoxox

Answer 8

some girls go for the looks and not whats inside and if she like and does not want to tell u maybe shes shy are shes afraid she'll feel embarrassed if u know who has a crush on u try going to her and telling that u like her and see what shes going to say

Answer 9

You don't have to worry about a thing you'll found love,your time will come around soon. Your crush is only a crush. They don't always work out but when love comes around your in luck. :D ( ^ - ~)
It's all going to work out for you.

Answer 10

I think it's like a test. Any girl that will date you regardless of what other people say is a keeper. That shows that she won't let other people persuade her, that she has made up her mind about you, and is a really kind person. Don't worry. You'll find someone. :]]

Answer 11

Sometimes girls think you are a geek or a nerd if you are smart, and those girls arent the ones to worry about, they aren't worth it. There are also girls that just don't like your actions or what you do, whether it be sports or videogames. Just wait, sooner or later, there will be a girl that will like you, and you will like her, just wait! Good-luck buddy