he met the girl on the internet and before you know it , he brings her to live in my home. it has not been a month since he met her. we live in brooklyn n.y and the girl lives in texas. the thing is, my uncles name is on the lease, but both of us are paying the rent.
2007-06-29 14:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by kaj029 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the girl is 19 and she drinks alot. my uncle is 35.the thing is, she is white and i am black.i have to put up with being called a ****** in my own home by her, and my uncle does nothing about it. i called the police and they said all i can do is take her to court.
2007-07-02 03:37:20 · update #1
You need to check the lease. You may not be able to get her out of there, if he is on the lease and your name is not. However, if you want to be mean, AND the lease indicates how many people are to live in the apartment, AND she makes one too many -- you could try to report her.
However, he might just kick you out. It may be time for you to look for your own place.
Keep in mind that if he has only known her for a short while, it may fizzle out quickly and she may be gone soon on her own.
2007-06-29 14:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she wants to stay in the house that you both share, she is going to have to do her share of the cleaning around the house, get a job and help you pay for it. If she doesn't, she has to go. Tell your uncle how you feel. To me, that's just not right. Tell him that he may have his name on that lease, but you're doing your fair share of paying to keep the place. It's just not right! If he has any common decency as a relative, he will at least hear you out. Luck to the both of you, especially you.
2007-06-29 21:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by bumblebeemeggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that while she's living there you would like to start splitting the rent and utilities 3 ways.
2007-06-29 21:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by accebermn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what you get for living with your uncle. Did he sign some contract that he was supposed to be celibate for the duration of your cohabitation?
2007-06-29 21:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do if his name is on the list, however you need to talk to him about splitting the rent in thirds now that his girlfriend is there
2007-06-29 21:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by k p 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she under age? Across state lines for sexual purposes? Mann Act?
2007-06-29 21:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mike1942f 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since it is his lease, you may be the one leaving.
2007-06-29 21:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoke to your uncle about it ,if not I would ,if that doesn't work ,pull the biatch up and tell her exactly how you feel ,let her know she is invading ,your space ,cant they both stay at hers .
2007-06-29 21:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by lisawrbiatch 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
have a talk with her, your uncle and yourself. Ask them when are they getting married?
2007-06-29 21:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by rss_beatty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy some RAID.
2007-06-29 21:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋