I know this guy and he really likes me, we have only hung out twice but he calls me alot and stuff, and we text each other all the time. Well we hung out again and he told me we were going to the mall but we ended up going to his friends house. Which is fine i guess it was alittle unexpected but whatever. Anyway they were in his friends swimming pool and my guy didnt even tell me to bring a bathing suit but it was fine. His friends were alright, they were friendly but they didnt really say much to me so it was kinda of awkward with me just standing there while they were all swimming. I had to leave after like 15 minutes cause i had to take care of my brother and my guy was like well mabe we can hang out again this week. Well he hasent called me in 4 days and im thinking i maybe did something wrong? Maybe his friends said im a weirdo or something or idk its just seems odd he wouldnt call back. He has not called me for a few days before but idk just seems strange.
2007-06-29 14:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are always yourself then you can never go wrong, darlin'. If he decided he didn't like you based on the whole swimming pool thing, or what his friends think, he's not worth your time. Try and remember that us girls get emotionally attached so much quicker than guys do. Don't stress about it, if it's meant to be then it will be. If not, there's something bigger and better in store for you :)
2007-06-29 14:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bethani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well It was wrong for him to take you somewhere else than planned & really lame to leave you out at his friends,if he was a better guy he would have told his friends that it was just gonna be you and him go to the mall and that he'd come hang out some other time and even if you two went to his friends he would have told them well you dont have a bathing suite so yall will just hang out by the pool or something.not leave you out.idk guys like that tick me off.But hey if he doesnt call you back,screw him theres better guys.=] You deserve way better than that.So dont feel like its your fault or anything.cause its his problem! =]
2007-07-02 02:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by punk_doll_jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
new friends ? at the swimming pool, no suit,new guy,awkward yes but what were they doing? you were committed to something else so even if you would have a suit you were planning on leaving so soon as you would look weird changing to jump in and getting right back out.
2007-06-29 21:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. It sounds like the guy might not be that into you. Give it a couple more days and if you haven't heard from him, call him and ask him what's going on.
2007-06-29 21:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Red Fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's extremely inconsiderate. My daughter would have been in trouble for going with him to a place other than what was planned. Who wants to go and watch others have fun? I'd re-think my feelings for someone who treated me like that.
2007-06-29 21:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by ersof59 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In case you haven't figured it out, men aren't that entirely different from women. They have their sense of pride and space. You seemed to be concerned about what others think of you. You couldn't possibly expect him to WANT to express his feelings for you every day. He has his dignity too, wouldn't you say?
2007-06-29 21:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by ktownfarmboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't seem like you done anything wrong I mean what does he expect you to jump in the pool with your clothes on?
2007-06-29 21:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still has 3 days so keep calm if he does not call in 2 then call him and ask whats up
2007-06-29 21:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by The_Info_Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried calling him? that has happened to me before. Maybe his friends said something. But if he has been ditchin you for his friends then forgit about him.. i mean.. its not like yall are dating yet. if yall was datin id done been up at his house and everything.. lol.. but just give it time.. maybe something came up.
2007-06-29 21:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by girl please.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he pulled the friend test on you... Take you around all them and see what they think... If he is so shallow that he can't call you or talk to you, you are better off without him..
2007-06-29 21:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋