Is it possible to get married and not have sex?

Answer 1

Yes - the sexual relationship you develop, maintain and advance is just as much work as every other aspect of your growth together. It's not something that will just happen all the time like in the movies. It's a connection between you and your spouse that needs nurturing and attention. It is also a physical act in which timing and rhythm are the paths to a good sexual experience. Communication is #1. Talk about this with your partner and figure out some new ideas. Good luck.

Answer 2

well sure anything is possible but is it probable??
no
the way i see it if you didn't put out when u were dating and this guy wants to marry he is a saint and much nicer and more respectable than most guys one would find in this day and age
now if you are about to marry a person i would hope it was for love
now if this person u love has been so good and patient why on earth wouldn't you want to pleasure them??
im guessing you dont want children
if i were your spouse and i waited until we were married to be intimate with you and you refused i would have to assume you wish to remain a virgin for life
so i would definately divorce you
but not after trying to find out why you dont want to
did you have a bad experience
are you repulsed by the thought
do you think sex to be dirty or unclean in any way
these are things that ought to be explored
unless you have not yet reached puberty there is something terribly wrong
sex is a natural and healthy part of life and it ought to be embraced just like your partner should

Answer 3

It depends how long, if your newlyweds then I dont see why its bad if you've been married for a a long(like 5-10yrs), then someone is definitly cheating. Everyone has hormones and has the urge......unless your older or elderly, I dont see that happening. I mean it depends the situation, this might not have helped as much as you wanted to because there wasnt much information given, but I hope this didnt make you feel bad, I mean cheating is definitly NOT a good thing.

Answer 4

Yes, but only in America.

Seriously, without sex you have grounds for an anullment, which is saying that it never was a marriage.

I guess there are people who do not want to have sex. So if two of them come together, it's none of my business. Hooray for love!

Answer 5

I think the question you should be asking is why would you get married and not have sex.

Fun fact though: I was watching this dateline special called "The Outsiders" and it was a group of couples, they call themselves "Asexuals" Who don't like having sex and don't have sex at all in the realtionship.

Answer 6

Its highly unusual, some would say dysfunctional.

Much more likely is you have lots of sex in the early months then it decreases to about once a week or month by the time 5 years or so has passed!

Answer 7

absolutely. Some people are called "asexual" meaning that they don't like sex, but they enjoy cuddling, being in a relationship, etc.

If that's the route you're going for, I'd discuss it with your partner first.

Answer 8

Well yeah- Theres is so much more to a relationship and marriage than sex and if youns are fine with not having sex then you will be fine. As long as your interests are the same and you have the same outlook on that.

Answer 9

Well, it's tradition that during the Honeymoon (something that occurs after the wedding and the reception) people usually loose it to their husband or wife. I don't know why that's tradition but I guess since they expressed their love for each other publicly, why not privately too?!

Answer 10

Its happened.It still happens(not willingly thoe).Sex is sealing the marriage.Sometimes one or the other refuses to have sex.Thats sad.I've herd of women marrying and not know the other was a woman(thinking she was a he).Thats sadder.The purpose is to be together.However.