He told me he wanted to surprise me for my birthday coming up next weekend and asked me if I would like to go to a motel.
I cannot help but feel it is for his benefit and not mine.
Is this supposed to be fun? Do most men want to take their girlfriends to a motel for their birthday? I cannot imagine what the point is supposed to be. I figure why spend the money?
Tell me what your opinion is.
2007-06-29 14:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will be 43 yrs old. He did offer dinner and a trip to a park where I have never been.
2007-06-29 14:42:30 · update #1
I dunno, I read through your posts and I think you should just move on. This guy is CONSTANTLY causing you pain, plus he's short, bad in bed, and an alcohilc who never wants to get married. Plus, with 2 divorces on his resume already, I beg to ask if perhaps there is something wrong with him.
Also, I would stop obsessing with your dog and Yahoo Answers and get out more often and ENJOY LIFE..
Lastly, I started having sex at 16, at 19 every single girl is having sex. If you are worried, you can either give her condoms or bring her to the dr. and set-her up on birth control pills.
Good luck!!!!!!
2007-07-01 12:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by stacy_8888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't usually take girlfriends to motels. How old are you? Are you underaged or over the legal age of consent? Bringing someone, especially a girl, to a motel would mean he wants privacy. Are you still a virgin or have had sex together before? It sounds rather dodgy to me, if you ask me. Why can't he take you to another place that's fun, like a theme park or something like that? I can't help but wonder what his motives are. In the end you gotta do what you think is best for you, only you know him better than anyone. Best of luck for you! :)
2007-06-29 21:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Unefemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is if you have already had sex., and if is already a long relationship. It could have sense. They are sure the best of the world is having sex. Maybe he really his intentions are ok. To go to a quiet place and be alone and share alone all the birthday stuff.
If is no fun with you, just tell him the same thing you say here. or ask him for another alternative... softly. and inteliggent if if its only the matter of the celebration.
2007-06-29 21:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by nikkita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you'll like it, too! He's not just in it for himself. He wants to give you pleasure. I think that's a nice thing to do. Why don't you just go to the park, and out to eat, then go to the motel! It'll be a great way to end the night with a bang. ;)
2007-06-29 22:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by sarahbarah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go...you're asking because you dont want to do it. if you wanted to go, you'd be chillin'...just waiting for that day to come. dont try to tell him exactly what to do...just let him know that you feel a little awkward about going to a motel and would prefer something along the lines of A,B, or C...list three things or more you would like...concert, dinner, ect. if he gets all defensive- it wasnt about you...if he says ok- he's interested in what you like and making you happy.
2007-06-29 21:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I agree with you-it is for his self serving part. Yes, a get away would be nice, I'm sure. However, unless he is panning a REALLY nice dinner there, etc., do everything you want, (and what if all you want to do in bed is sleep?)
He is thinking of himself. Sorry.
Happy Birthday!
2007-06-29 21:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to knock them cakes, which is a present for him, but he thinks he's giving a present to you . . . 3 inches at a time.
2007-06-29 21:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kalamazoo Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u ever think that maybe he is trying to be nice?
2007-06-29 21:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go... it can also be your pleasure...
2007-06-29 21:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by +w+a+n+t+e+d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋