Guys, please help me. I'm 23 and have been sleeping with this guy I really like for two years. He knows how much I like him, and, while I realize his interest does not seem as great as mine, he says he likes me too. We don't go out on dates or sleep with other people, but we don't call each other boyfriend/ girlfriend either, but he does call me "his girl." He doesn't want me to sleep with other guys and I don't want him to sleep with other girls. We have never actually been out on a date. We do our own thing and have our own friends, and while we enjoy each others' company, he knows I would like to deepen our relationship. Please tell me, especially if you are a guy who has been in a similar situation, have I just been this guy's f*ck buddy for the last two years? Is there any hope that we might be more in the future or am I just destined to be nothing more than a snuggle buddy? Thanks!
2007-06-29 20:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by ~~LaLaLa~~~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you have been his **** *****, like the skank you are.
2007-06-29 20:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Agent 0 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
your wasting your time. he will never think of you in any other way, barring some miracle. you need to break it off as you won't be open to any new relationship as long as your waiting on him and making yourself available. you deserve to be taken to the movies, out to dinner, given flowers and all the things that go with DATING. you are the sad loser in this so get a backbone and the courage to end it. who knows, he might even see you in a new light but i wouldn't give that too much hope. i also, would bet the has been 'sleeping' with others.
2007-07-07 17:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, stop giving this guy the milk for free . . . You have been in this kind of relationship for two years and he hasn't said he wants you to be in a legitimate relationship? Stop being his "buddy" and see what happens.
2007-07-07 19:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kizmetkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely his sexpartner.....dont fool yourself LOVE got nothing to do with it and you are beginning to feel more attached to the guy and I think secretly you are falling in love with him or already have but afraid to mention it cause he doesnt tell you he loves you or is in love with you.I know you are still very young but you will get hurt soon if you let your feelings grow for him.Im sure after he done the deed he WONT think of you anymore,you are not on his EMOTION-list and probably nobody is,he is too much after his own needs and lust so run fast.This guy will be a player for life.........let him get on with his flings without you....you are too sensitive for him
2007-07-07 15:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by ajal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set your sights higher, If you don't have enough respect for yourself, to be more than a sex toy, nobody else will either. Seems you have a little boy who thinks why buy the cow if he can get the milk for free. He is happy with the arrangement, and feels uncomfortable with changing it.
2007-07-07 16:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask him to go to a movie or out to eat and he says something other than yes its most likely an excuse so he is probably just using you for sex. I wish i could help you more but that's all i know.
2007-07-07 19:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, cause he's already have the buffet so why would he want to start a relationship... If you want a relationship, then you should demand it from him and if he doesn't offer that then move on... Because if he wants to be in a relationship with you, he would have been your bf by now... So, move on to a guy that would value you..
2007-06-29 20:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rain L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, quit it, don't get emotions mixed up with hormones!! Enjoy your friend, thats a life time memory, but little hope for a serious relationship. And oh yeah, be good enough, that he'll never forget you!!! And he'll set his standards higher!! he won't get there, but you've enjoyed the times!!!
2007-06-29 20:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you have nope in anything more. i am in the same situation mine is coming over tomorrow we have great sex but are oil and water out of the sack. i hope she aint reading this (bb you know i care for you i just dont love you yet). but seriously you have and it is too late to have something more IMHO.
2007-06-29 20:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by magejackson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need that fix.
you are a love addict drawn to him coz he is a sex addict. who does not want be a love addict. but still sex makes you feel close and its all you know. But he maybe also not be able to even give love as he is just hurting for other reasons. Ask him what he really thinks he needs beside just sex.
All men need to please our desire
2007-06-29 22:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by l33nix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the old saying about...
Why pay for milk when you can get it for free!
2007-06-29 20:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋