2007-06-29 20:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by kajal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't let a child bother you, it just means shes had sex, if you love her go for it. besides if you love her ull love her daughter its a package deal. If your not ready for a child maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. I am sure that spending time with her and her daugher is wat u need.
2007-06-29 20:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Candy-Kay-Ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man three years younger then my daughter fell in love with her. She has three kids and was married for twelve years, he was never married.
He had everything going for him, his own farm, two homes and three vehicles plus, a good job and, money in the bank.
A fairy tale meeting? no?
I asked him what was wrong with him? he had all this going for him. He simply stated, he was in love with her and her kids.
She dated him for two years, it was tough at first, they had a lot to straighten out, he knew nothing about kids.
They've been married for two years now and are happy.
Get to know the nine year old. Don't try and replace her father, you won't. Be her friend but, keep discipline and treat her as an individual, don't pamper her and spoil her.
2007-06-30 06:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called a package deal. You should be prepared to deal with typical issues with step-parenting, woman fighting with ex, child support, visitation, going to court, etc. Not good or bad, you just need to be prepared.
2007-06-30 13:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her then the fact that she has a daughter should have no bearing on your relationship with her. If you love her be with her and treat her kid like your own.
2007-06-30 04:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good job you can marry her if you love her . you dont say if you have your own kid so yeah marry her and support the kid till shes 18!
2007-06-30 04:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, you have problems with her having a 9 yr old daughter? why? is that bad?
2007-06-30 04:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure ur inlove ? then , 1 by 1 read their answers and u will ge tthe solution
2007-06-30 05:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by carmelite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's not married there's not much of a problem unless you don't like kids
2007-06-30 03:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you hit the book store and read up on how to be the best step father you can be and propose....
2007-06-30 03:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you real love the women its okay you must love the women for what or who she are if you`re love are pure
2007-06-30 04:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by rizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋