what were the consiquences?do you regret it?are you having one now?
2007-06-29 23:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by hunniiuk 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no im not having an affair,im very happy
2007-06-30 00:18:06 · update #1
Yes.
My husband was never around and didn't give me the attention I wanted. I decided to start going out with my male friends and ended up with a crush on one. I told my husband at the time that I had a crush on someone else, and he still allowed me to go out all night with the guys. I decided he didn't care about me and thought "I'm going to have an affair".
The end result was I ended up in a place where I didn't recognize myself any more. I decided that it wasn't who I was and ended up going on an extended vacation. When I got back, I decided to get a divorce. I thought that my husband deserved someone better than me who wouldn't cheat on him.
I do regret the affair. I realize how inmature I was being and how I should have talked to my husband. We could have gone to counseling to try to work on our problems. Instead, I destroyed our relationship.
I am not having one now, and I never will again. It's not worth it.
2007-06-29 23:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by torn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consequences where a troubled marriage for a couple of years. Regret it yes, if you think the grass may be greener on the toher side, i would suggest you divorce before you look for those pastures. Affairs will never have a good outcome.
2007-06-29 23:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Army Retired Guy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am not having one now. I had one about 7 years ago. It was a bad idea. My wife and I got back together 6 months later, but she will never forget what I did and some times I think she is angry with me and mean to me because of it. Still to this day. I guess I deserve it, but I try and make it up every day.
2007-06-29 23:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if I could only be with her by having and affair then I would have to say yes very badly,
I would rather not cheat on my wife. I love and live with my wife, but I am so in love with her sister in law, I love my little girl to death but I never should have gotten married. oddly enough my wifes brother feels the same way.
I love you H. W.
2007-06-30 01:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by john doe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why, of course, every time I walk into Wal-Mart on these warm sunny days and the girls are half dressed, I want to have an affair with all of them.
Unfortunately for me, my wife of fifty years knows what I'm up to and watches me quite close, she keeps a tight rein on me, maybe for the best, I would be ravaging all these beauties, if I could ever find that note telling me what I'm suppose to want from them.
2007-06-29 23:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If its just a lust thing then sure get it out of your system Just use protection and be up front with the guy that you do not intend to leave hubby . Just be discreet and it probably fail anyway
2007-06-29 23:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No - there are always major consequences- which you can never patch up - and when children are involved- you're messing things up for them also - People in this category lie a lot- deceive alot of people - who knows when they will deceive you...visit FaceEternity.com for more info that can help you.
2007-06-29 23:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by faceeternity 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have cheated. Probably dont regret it but then I am now on my own, my choice.
2007-06-29 23:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by D 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no i just want an Internet "friend" whom i can trade pictures with
Because i love my girl and would never do anything with another girl physically
2007-06-29 23:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i just found out about my husbands affair. im hurting so much i can hardly think. i hope you arent considering it. it hurts the spouse so much.
2007-06-29 23:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by daria d 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋