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my present marraige is not siccessful, can i gor for a another affair pls suggest me

2007-06-29 23:21:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Sure you can go for another affair no legal barrier for this but such affair can be used against you for the charge of adultery & on this charge your spouse can get divorce from you. As far second marriage during the first one subsisting can be bigamous marriage that can put you behind the bars for committing bigamy if both your (first & second marriages) are proved in the criminal complaint filled against you for bigamy. If both these and any of these marriages are unable to be proved by sufficient evidence you can get free from the criminal charges of bigamy but still your spouse gets ground for divorce of adultery against you.

2007-06-30 17:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1 0

If your present marraige is not successful, then do something about it first before getting into another affair. To help you out, you may ask yourself the following questions:
1. Why is it not working? Who's at fault?
2. Is it still possible to work things out?
3. Do you have children? How would the children feel about your situation? Will it do you good to continue staying together or not?
4. What is your reason for having another affair?

Answering these questions honestly may lead you to find some answers to your question.

2007-06-29 23:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by confused lady 2 · 0 0

Don't have an affair. If you want to be romantically involved with someone, then have the decency to get divorced first.

Anyway, you have to be aware that whatever problems you had in your first marriage might be waiting to reappear with someone else, maybe in a slightly different form.

Of course you can get married again. Lots of people do it. Some people do it 3 or more times too.

You have to have a deep, true look into why your present marriage isn't working. You can't just blame it all on your spouse. Even if they are insane, you have to look at what part of you attracted that into your life, etc.

Good luck.

2007-06-29 23:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't know who you are I mean Male or Female. Before going for a second marriage have you ever spent time for a self evaluation of the situations in which your first marriage became a failure? If no, go for it first. See, in this modern world human beings are always "gets, forgets and then regrets". You have to imbibe another quality like "give and forgive". Then only you will be able to survive. Suppose you got married for the second time. Is it guaranteed that the same problems which lead to the failure of your first marriage will not occure? If it happens then what, a third marriage?

2007-06-29 23:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0 0

Give more details. Are you male or female? how long you are married? Not successful means in what way? You asked 2 different questions. In the question, you have asked can I go for 2nd marriage. Inside you have asked can i go for another affair. What exactly you need? Answer depends on all the above factors.

2007-07-02 01:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by bvk41 2 · 0 0

You need to work on your present marriage. An affair will ultimately not make you happier. Seek counseling with your spouse. Work it out. Affairs are nothing to be proud of, but a long, successful marriage, though it takes work, is much more rewarding.

2007-06-30 05:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by ready4sea 4 · 0 0

Yes, if the first one is dissolved. It is easier said than done. What are the grounds on which you will seek separation ? Supposing you succeed what is the guarantee that the 2nd alliance will work if the lst one has not. It is said that an known devil is better than the unknow. Why not try to remove cause of friction with the known one. The choice is entirely yours.

2007-07-03 04:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should try to adjust with the first. because its not sure that second will be successful. if you hv given reasons more positive answer can be given. but u should not think of second in my views. this is mans word. second man, whether married many times does not accept woman in second marriage after few enjoyment. and if u are a man, the same can happen with u in iind marriage. if not satisfied, will u keep on changing partners? hell with this type of relationship which can not prolong for life time.

2007-07-01 16:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by bhups 5 · 0 0

Your second marriage would also go bad. Therefore, try to put up the question with supporting detail about your present marriage, its duration and whether you two have some common children of yours.

Divorcing and re-marriages are not GAMES but one can make it GAMES and suffer equally.

2007-06-29 23:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Peripatetic 2 · 0 0

first you try to find out the reason of failure and if possible sort out the problem and if not possible seek the divorce. some times it is not possible to seek divorce due to family status or kids if any. in that situation you decide why you want to marry again if it is physical satisfaction then the best way is that to develop relation with a woman without string attachment or conviction.

2007-06-30 00:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by tiwary_renu 2 · 0 0

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