we have been together 3 years and i love her and she love me but somtimes i think its not working there is too many problems .to start i love sex but she is not that intersted i like romance and eating out or go to the move and she is not that botherd ,she is 23 and i am 33.
2007-06-29 23:25:46 · 27 answers · asked by will edward m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 38 and my gf is 22
you should be fine.
2007-06-29 23:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well maybe I can help, because I am in her shoes. My fiance is 11 years older than me, I'm about to turn 23. (Dear God honey, I hope it isn't you over there!)
The age difference does have something to do with, or rather it can. You are probably a lot further along in developing your career path and generally settling down in life. She has a lot of ground to make up. She will be trying very hard to catch up to you as best as possible.
Sounds exactly like me and my man. He always wants to have sex more than I do, but at times I am taking 16 units at college and still working 30-40 hours per week. Right now I have a major family crisis I'm working through. He on the other hand works his 9-5 job. Getting the picture here?
I would say give it some time, and just try and remember what it felt like to be 23, then try and think about the pressure she must feel. I'm sure you guys can get through it!
Good Luck!
2007-06-29 23:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by julianwhimsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope....she is going to change even more over the next 5 years. What do you actually have in common besides sex....which you admit she's not into. You must be pretty immature to be with a 23 y/o. Ten years isn't really the point.....As you experience more life, that gap will close. But now, and 33 and 23.....it's worlds apart. I think the deck is stacked against you.
2007-06-29 23:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the problem is not an age thing but an interest thing. If your interests don't mix then it is hard for a relationship to work. Some common ground is important regardless of the age. I sounds like you already have doubts about the soundness of compatibility. I hope you can work it out.
2007-06-29 23:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with any relationship, it could go either way. Age comes into it somewhere but its the individuals who determine whether it is going to work. im now in a relationship with a man twice my age and its the best thing i've ever been involved in. The age gap has never really been an issue except in the eyes of others. It will only work if you two work together and want the same thing from your relationship. Be honest with yourselves with where it is you want to go in life!! Best of luck!
2007-06-29 23:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work, there is 7 years between me & my fiance and we been together nearly 3 years, love each other dearly. We have different tastes in things as well but the key is to do something you both enjoy together, or one night do her thing, next night do your thing. The sex unfortunately you are just going to have to deal with, is it really that big a deal though?
2007-06-29 23:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by **sparkleprincess** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry ted didnt work for me but plugging an 18 year old was fun but there taste in music and inability to remember decent kids tv shows got in the way but great sex though i swear that girl could suk a golf ball through a garden hose
2007-06-29 23:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by David T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats fine because i am 11 years younger than my husband we are now 7 years married i have got 2 kids as well. age doest make any difference if lve each other and understanding.
2007-06-29 23:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by r d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look its your girlfriend so if she doesnt like sex with you then you are doomed with her . Its not that big of an age difference . I would not put up with it and find a new girlfriend . I hope you dont marry her !
2007-06-29 23:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 years older than my girlfriend,we have been together 5 years now and still cool...go with it...
2007-06-30 00:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy I like is a 15 year age gap but it might work if I have enough courage to ask him out!
2007-06-30 01:16:28 · answer #11 · answered by ωєℓѕн 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋