2007-06-29 23:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are a queen bee. I know the testosterone level can be overwhelming at times. I had 3 boys too long before my girl came along and for the longest time I felt like an island in a storm of male activity. But I was well equipped. Always have food on hand (for some reason boys are always hungry)., be firm but supportive, and when they reach the age that puberty kicks in and they turn into aliens-take out their baby pictures and remember that they are still your precious children even though you may not recognize them right this minute. Pick your battles. Make sure that their father takes them on "man outings" every now and then so you can enjoy some "girl" time. And enjoy them. It goes by all too fast and before you know it they are gone.
2007-06-29 23:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awesome lol Here's a few tips; Pray alot and thank God for your blessings. Be patient....it really helps to count to 10 if you find yourself losing control. Also check the toilet seat before sitting down...I've had too many days/nights falling in the toilet! Be very supportive of your family. Grow with your kids :-) Don't spoil your husband. That was my downfall. I always took care of the paperwork. Now I'm teaching him to do it himself because I'm tired. Believe it or not, some men actually have a brain lol No Offense to you men out there!! I'm just teasing!! lol Not!! lol Teach them to spoil you lol. Love and enjoy them with all your heart. Take care! Peace!!
2007-06-30 09:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kaualani E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to get along. I come from a family of five Sons and three Daughters. I'm the oldest
2007-06-30 06:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kuraimizu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've survived 12 yrs. anyway. If it's becoming chaotic, step back & make them glad you've been there. If you cater to their every need, you'll never be free to have you own time, and you'll ruin any chances of them striking out on their own to find their careers, wives, and independance. Take up fishing by yourself. I did it because it was a licsense to kill, & because it was serene. That & my ex didn't like it. He couldn't accuse me of anything stupid when I brought home fish more relaxed.
2007-06-30 06:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to smile, play and be the emotionally stronger one. Give the support not question, that all of them need not want. Try not to lose yourself - you were living and had ambition before all this, don't give it up.
2007-06-30 06:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find the secret? tell me! I have one boy 7, girl 4, girl 15 mths and baby boy due in oct!
2007-06-30 06:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by cee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with amazing friends. Ones that can make you laugh, and keep your perspective.....or bail you out of jail if you happen to kill one of boys!! Good luck!!
2007-06-30 06:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by wendy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the lid off the toilet seat if you don't want to go nuts.
2007-06-30 07:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember to put the toilet seat down or you will end up with your b*tt in the toilet.
2007-06-30 06:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have 3 girls...12, 3 and my wife. I stay at work and when I do find myself at home I stay intoxicated.
2007-06-30 06:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋