Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

Recently this guy (I'm 18 btw) who is 27 just asked me out while at work and I TOTALLY taken by it! He is really handsome, a complete dream guy! But I really cant get my head around it and he asked me in front of my friends who i also work with so bit embaressing! Apparently he has liked me for a while and only now had the nerve to ask me. It was a totally out of the blue scene but I think he must have noticed me gorping at him! Anyway he really is handsome and wants us to date. He lives far away and hopes I can live with him in future. Thing is... I really cant believe it and feel quite outclassed he is better educated, better looking, etc... etc... I mean I just was really gob smaked I asked him to repeat 3 times and just stared at him for 20 seconds when he asked the first time! I'm really just a common girl. OMG!! How do i handle this dream offer?

HELP!!!

2007-07-03 20:21:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz do give decent and sensible answers.....

2007-07-03 20:15:51 · 22 answers · asked by sexy sush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

here's the dress: dress

2007-07-03 20:10:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My mother who was staying with me for the last 2 years and about 6 months have gone somewhere without telling anybody on 8th may . THere was some fight that usually happen in homes. We are trying everything b ut nothing is happening . When she will return back?

2007-07-03 20:04:23 · 22 answers · asked by Renuka Shrivastava 2 in Friends

2007-07-03 20:02:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went out with this guy and he dumped me cuz he was going to move to grand junction and it turns out that he used me while i was dating him and lied to me about so much crap and now he is planing to use one of my freinds and by the way he was never going to move he just said that as an exscuse to go out and sleep with another girl witch i caught him doing and i dont understand why guys like to use me and iam not even a hoe or a slut .. and i never slept with him by the way i dont role like that he just used me emotionaly ...... dont you think that is messed up .....

2007-07-03 19:59:56 · 8 answers · asked by Rose M 1 in Singles & Dating

So she says shes going to Prescott tomorrow to go to a Rodeo with some old friend from work who quit a while back. But then I heard her on the phone talkin to him askin him what their plans were for tomorrow and I overheard her say "Oh you naughty devil that sounds like fun." and "Don't worry my husband won't suspect a thing." I think shes cheating and I don't know what to do. I know I don't all the facts but it sounds like it right? So do I leave her or ***** her out and tell her I know.. what do I do?

2007-07-03 19:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Brendan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Say you were told by a guy you liked and were dating that the only thing he hated more than anything was a whining, irritating nag, could you stop yourself from becoming that person to save the relationship? How would you remind yourself if it's part of your nature???

2007-07-03 19:54:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive never had a GF but this freind of mine says its so over-rated, that she called him too much and stuff

I can't stand it when people talk like that!

I would give anything to have a Girl, Why cant people just be happy with who there with!!! Why cant they just be happy that hey, someone actually cares about you that they want to talk to you, he said that someone is trying to make him go out with another girl, my other freind chimes in "oh that sucks" I about snapped "NO THAT IS THE EXACT OPPOSIT OF SUCK!!!' no one would ever set me up with a girl!!! Ive never been on the other side of love, I see guys who have perfectly great girls who like them and they dont even care, girls I would die for and they just see it as annoying!!!!

AM I THE ONLY SANE OR ONLY CRAZY GUY ON THE PLANET!!!!!

PS. Where can I find those "crazy-Stalker" girls I hear guys whining about, because Id love it for a girl to care about me that much, mabye they wouldent be so insane if you atleast gave them a chance

2007-07-03 19:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

never been down this road but i am really feeling antsy, got to do it.

2007-07-03 19:51:33 · 16 answers · asked by trainingday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my son friend been living with him and his wife and kids for almost a year his friend to lazy to work couse he smokes pot got my son doing the same now he treats his wife and kids bad what shouid i do to fix it with out any athordies son will go to jail his friend dont care

2007-07-03 19:46:07 · 5 answers · asked by fannie d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need someone to talk to, about anything, will you talk to me. please. i am on yahoo messenger at why_wont_you_love_me.

2007-07-03 19:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by Chelsea B 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been together for 4yrs (married 2) and I made the big mistake a few days ago. She does not know about the incident and will MOST likely never know unless I come clean. The down and DIRTY of it all is that we (my wife and I) were at a party at some friends place, she left early and I stayed behind when it all happened a few hours later. During the heat of the moment I had the reality check and I said the classic “I cant do this line,” and drove home (another poor decision being extremely drunk.) I realize it was my fault for even being in the situation. I have never had a one-night stand or come close to cheating on any of my 3 prior partners. I am 26 and like to binge drink on occasion (not after this though.)

I considered myself a Christian up to now and have been reading the good book to find my solution. I feel like it is my sin to bear and that if I tell her it will only relieve me of my guilt and put an unnecessary burden on her. Any advice?

2007-07-03 19:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sam J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I die, I want to go like my grandfather, peaceful and in my sleep, not terrified and screaming like all the passengers in his car.

How about you?

2007-07-03 19:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by aquamoon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been think of a lot of foolish behavior this past couple of days because for the fact I just moved back with my wife after a 3 month Separation.

Strange behavior from wife mainly she wants sex at a drop of a dime.
Then their her uncle my friend who's marriage is falling apart after he confessed that they been in an open marriage for 3 years, and it's heading for Divorce!

I sat down with my wife last evening before I was told about the Impending divorce of her UNCLE and we had a great talk about what went through her mind before I left , the emotional Affair with her HIGH SCHOOL 1st love, and what she felt like when I suggested we consider a divorce, but instead worked out our problems and are still working on them now but for the 1st time I feel it's in a positive manner instead of one thats been fueled by anger, hatred, even VIOLENCE. Her 1st love and I had a few angry punches thrown at one another, he lost went home to wife who kicked him out! He's done this 3 times before!

2007-07-03 19:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a guy I was in love with him and got all weird..I mean he got all quiet and like 007 and I have to figure out what he says..I mean WTF. He is not an american so he is shy but its so annoying I really want to hit on his head and tell him WTF! lol! But he does care about me because he never gets angry at me no matter what I do. He is in the army so he doesn't have much time, ITS NOT THE US ARMY SO NO FIGHTING JUST BOOT CAMP ALL GUYS MUST SERVE 18 MONTHS OVER HERE, We are both here and I know him 5 years. When I see him should I smack him lol! Man he sucks!~

2007-07-03 19:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basicly narrowing it down 2 gurls ur around or see somewhat often

2007-07-03 19:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok been happily married 16 yrs and im 38 and husband is 42 and we make love 2-3 times a week and he says he is always ready for sex whenever i want it and i love making love with him and i have never turned him down or rejected him and never would but i intiate most of time..He says he likes it when i do most of the intiating..Are other men like this?

2007-07-03 19:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by lauren s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay there is this song called I Wonder and I had sang it to my mom because I think she needs to grow up and be a mom was that wrong of me to do that becasaue i think i made her feel bad and now i feel guilty but all i wanted to do was to let her know i felt but was that wrong of me to do that???

2007-07-03 19:27:15 · 6 answers · asked by Heather D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-03 19:26:09 · 11 answers · asked by Ranjeeta S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy. who i know also likes me.
But we are both too shy.
His friends said he would ask me out tomorrow.

Beausce we are shy what's some easy we can talk to each other and have a better realtionship.

*** and i know he iss going to ask me out lol.

2007-07-03 19:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by izzhee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 19:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is what someone told me:

my dad told some guy across the
street to turn down his crappy music .

he got mad and tried to stab my dad.

i shot the guy protecting my stupid dad
because i care for him.
i don't know why, i just did it.
and they let me go because
lucky for me, my step sister who
i used to hate was recording her
dumb friends and saw what happened.
it made me realize that i don't really care
much for my dad, but i still love him
and that my step sister, even though
i have treated her like crap, she still backed me
up.

The person that gave me this said he feels terrible about killing another human being and basically that it will haunt him forever.

Also, he doesn't know what to do because it made him
realize his family meant a lot more to him than he thought.

What advice should I give him? I don't know what to say.

2007-07-03 19:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend's birthday is coming in a couple of days and all i can get for her is these cheap stuff that i can only afford! she says all she wants for her birthday is a pink nintendo ds, a cell phone, and all these expencive stuff that i cant even afford!!!! but she has been such a good friend to me that i want to give her a perfect gift. what can i get her?

2007-07-03 18:58:19 · 16 answers · asked by m!LLy b0r3d 4 in Friends

married 5 years, have 3 young kids, yes he's done it before! i asked him he said NO! (not like he's really going to say yes anyway why ask) but i did!...now i cant help but ask him everyday more and more call him all day all night when he's not here heck he could be with her i look at his cell bill online every 5 minutes i am going insane any suggestions?

2007-07-03 18:57:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Your waiting in line at a store when I cut in front of you. After kindly mentioning to me that you where in line first, I tell you, to go shove it.
You reach into your bag and pull out a small remote control. With a push of a button you shrink me down to the size of a bug. I look up and see you towering over me, with a devilish look in your eyes. I start to run. What would you do?

2007-07-03 18:56:38 · 19 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

with him. We have two dogs. The younger one is undeniably my dog. He picked me, you either know what I mean or you don't. We had the other dog longer, and she is close to both of us. We split up once before we got the younger dog and there was no question I would keep the dog we had, call her Lady.
Now that we have two dogs he wants me to leave Lady with him. At first I was going along with this, I don't want to be a you-know-what. I love my dog, but I know the younger one needs me more and if there is a decision to be made well... Thing is, I have 2 cats too, had them from before the bf. I moved out 8 days ago, and I took all the pets except for Lady. I think it broke her heart. I picked her up today and brought her to my place because the bf is going out of town. She is happy to see the pets, but I can tell she is mad at me, and I don't think she has been eating well. I really want to do the right thing. Do I choose my dog's feelings or my ex's. My ex has bad anger issues. more comi

2007-07-03 18:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by sage 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some difficulties (for people who've done this) you've experienced? I'm 23, and I'm talking 10+ years older. Any advice?

2007-07-03 18:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by Cail 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this woman for only a few months. I find her very attractive. She works at a local nightclub as a waitress. She says she's into Asian men and has date previous dates and boyfriends with them. It seems I match her type of guy. She also tells me that I look so sexy when I smile at her.

Whenever I see her, we talk very briefly, sometimes I buy her a drink, and we give each other a friendly hug whenever I step into the club and say goodbye. I stop by every once in awhile just to meet with her. She always tells me she misses me when I haven't seen her within a week or two.

Recently, she gave me her # so we can talk whenever we're not busy. However, I'm not sure if she gave me her # to talk casually or to make plans to see each other again. I'm kind of confused about this situation.

From what I observed, a question comes to me. Is she really interested in me? Is this a sign of a crush?

Well, which one is bad?
1. dating a cocktail waitress
2. dating a stripper

2007-07-03 18:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got three different number from girls at different clubs. Do these girls still see me as a customer or are they interested in dating? I am different from the other guys in the club because I treat them like human beings and not hot meat. I would like some insight from people who have experience.

Please try to keep this serious, no stupid remarks about how I shouldn't date them, because I don't care.

I just want to know how to approach the situtaion.

thank you.

2007-07-03 18:47:37 · 18 answers · asked by law school kid 1 in Singles & Dating