plz do give decent and sensible answers.....
2007-07-03 20:15:51 · 22 answers · asked by sexy sush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing wrong to have pre marital sex if it with the man or woman you purpose to marry & if it is done with proper precautions/preventive measures to avoid pregnancy & any sexually transmitting diseases. What is wrong to indulge in multi sexual relationship as these can be a health problem for you as well for your sex partner? After all just for pleasure of few moments one should avoid taking such health risk that can destroy your future matrimonial life.
2007-07-04 20:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex, its the chemical need of our body associated with physical action to get mental satisfaction.
It does not carry any tag of good / bad or right/wrong until and unless you sickle it with religion, law of the land and other reasons.
Yes, one thing is there, ie age. Age plays a vital role, even if you are willingly opting for it, you should be matured. You should be able to understand the safety precautions to be taken.
Since Olden times in our Indian customs it is considered to be non adviceable due to many reasons like religion, caste, creed.
Child marriage was one of the boon in respect to this reason being if the problem was taken care from the begining the question does not arrise.
In todays world average marriage age is bet 19 - 26 in north and in south it crosses the upper limit o f 30 yrs also. In such case the secreation and desire temptates individual to have sex before marriage. I think, once the individual is matured there should be no bondage over this things but with precautions.
2007-07-05 04:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex lust made human beings, very close to animals. Now a days people started think about having sexual relations with most sacred relationships. Every person will have the wish that his/her spouse to come as a virgin at the first night. I am a person have been married 15 years (successful in all sense) after a long courtship of 10 years. We had enough chances to have physical relations. But both of us had this determination in our mind that at the first night we must be pure. May be you will find it a little more conservative, but keeping such elevated determination will have positive impact in our life. so personally I suggest not to go for it.
2007-07-04 03:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong. Premarital sex gets the image of being wrong because of religion mostly. Many religions feel that sex should only occur after marriage because it is a special bond between man and woman. Sex should happen when two people care and love eachother and it should be special not just some one night stand.
2007-07-04 04:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If pre marital sex is right then Adultry when married is also right!! - would you like your hubby to be sleeping around before and after marriage? And having a couple of kids out of his such relationships??
2007-07-05 02:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in my book...if you care for someone and this may be the person you are going to marry, you need to see if you're compatible sexually. One reason for so many divorces now!
I am a very sexual person and have to have that equally, I also want him to be able to say he is going to be satisfied with what I have to offer. I am sure I will get a lot of thumbs down for this, but this is honesty. However, I do think one should be an adult before having sex(male or female).
2007-07-04 03:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sush, plz be ur own decision maker. If u feel like going for it then do it and if feel otherwise then never do it in any pressure. As being a girl u may be at some disadvantage due to the nature.
2007-07-04 10:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who gave you the impression that it was wrong..? The only "wrong" reasons are religious ones. You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it, you wouldn't buy a house without inspecting it. Marriage is no different. My metaphors may be crude, but I think that my point is made.
Do what feels right to you and don't let others judge you for your choices.
2007-07-04 03:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS it wrong or right is entirely depends upon once own perception. This perception may change over the period of time. Every act of any individual if results in guilt feeling then it is wrong else it is right.
2007-07-04 07:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kamal K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is highly immoral. After the experience of such intimate relation the process of marriage itself becomes meaningless .The spirit, sanctity & purity of the concept of marriage (which is felt & best understood by true believers of religions only) looks ridiculous & absurd. It remains only for record sake to hoodwink the world that one is now legally married to somene to claim one's rights.
2007-07-05 09:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋