Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

I was wondering what I should do....here's my situation. My boyfriend and I have a three year old son and we're expecting another any day now. He's 24 and I'm 23. I know we're young blah, blah, blah. But when he's not at work he's constantly hanging out with our friends, who, by the way, don't have children, and leaving me to take care of our three year old. I'm the one who gets up with him every day...not that I don't like to, but sometimes a girl needs a break too! I do EVERYTHING!! He just plays with him. And his mother still spoils the crap out of him. The lady waits on him HAND AND FOOT!! I've asked her not to and told her that that is one of the reasons we argue but she continues to do this!!! He's too concerned with partying and being with his friends. I had to grow up so why doesn't he have to? Any advice on what to do?

2007-07-03 16:47:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she tells me that im the only one she's counting on and without me, she'll be nothing. look, i know for a fact that if i do break up with her she's not gonna go home, to school, to therapy, take her medication - basically ruin her life and she just might kill herself. thing is, i usually make her cry and give her heartaches but for some masochistic reason, she doesnt wanna break up with me. wouldnt it be much easier if she was willing to break up too? i just want her to replace me with someone else and that would make me really happy. i hate my life. it really sucks to be me. i just wish that i never entered this relationship in the first place. i feel trapped. help...

2007-07-03 16:46:19 · 25 answers · asked by like, totally! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can u be in love with a person that u dated 12 years ago and now you found them again iam trying to fly to see her or should it be just a memory have butterflies for this lady. we never broke up just went different way can this be happening all over again

2007-07-03 16:43:31 · 4 answers · asked by MeanMax61 3 in Singles & Dating

I had 2 babies pretty much back to back (Jan '06 and Feb'07) and I find since I've had the last one that my self esteem is shot. While I was pregnant with him I found out that my husband was "cheating" online and over the phone with his ex gf (who lives in another province) and would do so the minute I left the house to go to dr's appt's that he would never go to and close to the end of that pregnancy he had called one of my friends and approached her on having sex. Since all of that I am always paranoid about my looks, body image etc. I wont get naked in front of him or let him see all of me if we are having sex. I find I am very moody, paranoid and also CONSTANTLY checking his cell, emails, IM chats etc. He swears it'll never happen again (yeah right). Whenever I try to talk about my feelings he either changes the subject or walks away. Has anyone ever encountered this and how do you fix this type of situation? Please help, it's ripping me apart! :(

2007-07-03 16:39:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and I have been together for 3 years. I live in the US and my partner lives in another country that does not allow for registered partnership of the same sex. We would like to register our partnership in the US but we are not sure if it is possible, since my partner is not a US citizen. Can some one advise (if, how, and where).

2007-07-03 16:38:13 · 2 answers · asked by s w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 16:35:38 · 20 answers · asked by chilicooker_mkb 5 in Weddings

i am a female, and i LOVE going to female strip clubs... why do so many people have a problem with this??

2007-07-03 16:33:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm concerned because my husband said to me the other day (after I asked him why he didn't come to me for sex any more) that he has just matured and doesn't need it as much anymore. Is that actually possible? Or should I be concerned something is wrong? He claims, he's just tired of being turned down, so he doesn't want to try anymore. Although I rarely, if ever, turn him down. So I want to know what's up. By the way, we've been married 5 years and he is 28 and I'm 24.

2007-07-03 16:29:31 · 26 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriends son has his girlfriend knocked up, sorry for the harsh wording but its a very touchy subject with a lot of frustration. Is she being my girlfriend, still responsible for his actions. He has already been in trouble with the law and so on she is worried that if he gets out of her house and gets into trouble, will she get in trouble for him being a minor or will he be considered a adult

2007-07-03 16:29:23 · 6 answers · asked by caryrg72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am wondering, my boyfriend who is 48 lives in cleethorpes, i myself live in the united states. we have been apart for 5 months and it will another 2 months before we are together. i completely trust him and do believe in him. but i would like to know about how other men can do this. is it hard! can you put it out of your mind and get by

2007-07-03 16:29:11 · 12 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Singles & Dating

hey guys, i was wondering how long you have been married, what is your secret that makes your marriage work...and what is the biggest obstical that you have ever gotten over, thank you ....

2007-07-03 16:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by justajewelll 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I made it today, and I was wondering what you guys think of it. I know its a little funky, but in your oppinion what do you think?
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2007-07-03 16:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so he's my guy friend and and i don't see him everyday but i will when school starts. when i see him in random places he'll grab my hand and and hug me and one time he kissed me on my forehead in front of my other friends. and when i saw him at the store, i was in my car and the window was down and i blew the horn at him and he came up to me, reached inside my car and gave me a hug, then grabbed my hand and sarted running it and we talked for a whil and before he left he reached in my car and hugged me again. [he made effort] then i saw him in the mall and we were both aon the phone and i didnt see him and he walked to me and hugged me and started rocking me from side to side and the first thing he said i was "i love you" and we talked for a bit and i walked off and when i came back he was about to leave and before he left, he came back up to me and gave me a hug and and said "i love you" and he said he would see me later and then he turned around and asked me for my number because he

2007-07-03 16:25:15 · 8 answers · asked by mrsthicke4life 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister in law has been telling me for months that her and her husband which is my husbands brother don't have the money to buy a house and that he is in a depression because of it...so i tell my husband of the things she said so that he can maybe make his brother manager of one of the businesses he owns before he makes a stranger because they aren't making the money that they need to move foward. Turns out she calls the day her husband goes into train for business and asks us "what is the light at the end of the tunnel"?? She was expecting him to be a business partner and my hubby already has one...i had to ask her exactly what he made for a living and our positon was less money...and by the way they are making a very good salary. I said why did you set me up to believe you had no money?? and she says no it is a life style i want...So now the brothers have not spoke because of this...is she a calculated girl or am i crazy?

2007-07-03 16:24:34 · 4 answers · asked by blondiebella 3 in Family

So I'm a US Marine. I was just in the field doing training for 18 days. And during that time my wife was raped by one of her friend's friends. Now she doesn't want to be affectionate or have sex, or even barely touch me. I have been nothing but a great husband to her. What do I do to help her? She doesn't want anyone to know, and probably won't seek counseling. What can I do to ease the pain she's feeling, and how do I ease her back into having an affectionate relationship with me? Hopefully I can do it before August 27th, because I head to another base to train for 4 months, then I deploy to Iraq for 14 months.

2007-07-03 16:22:42 · 31 answers · asked by kevin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 16:20:31 · 27 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

35/40 year olds looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage

2007-07-03 16:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by wonderingwhiz 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont think you should... heck, i dont think i should be doing so...

2007-07-03 16:18:32 · 21 answers · asked by like, totally! 1 in Singles & Dating

She was depressed from her childhood, I guess she was sexually assaulted, because of that she was always an ego maniac and a very angry person, Her husband was so nice trying to get her treated , but she threatedned him with suicide attempts ,and she threatened she would even kill her kids when her husband is not at home., she was physically and emotionally very abusive to her kids and her husband... the poor husband in this case looking for the kids safety left her alone ......after that she went thru psycho therapy and lived for last 2 years without being allowed to meet her kids..... she still loves her husband and wishes she could get her life back on track as she wsa sober for last 2 years ...... what do you think she should do, there was no any legal action in the family separation just happened without any doctors or cops involved and the husband took sole responsibility to support her so far.... but he doesnt contact her anymore ..... she is sober and wishes to get her family

2007-07-03 16:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the reason why i ask is because he always thought he was too old to have another kid when he's daughter is 25, and 29 yrs old.

2007-07-03 16:17:32 · 29 answers · asked by lynda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 16:16:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 16:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would i tell a guy i like him, without him thinking i'm a total idiot?


what scent do you like girls to wear?

how would I talk to a guy?

2007-07-03 16:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Singles & Dating

Today he was flirting with me a lot and one of my bosses who is 24 said quit flirting with eachother do you want me to hook you guys up, and he said no we might kill eachother because its kinda a picking on eachother like hiting eachother and the other day he hit me with a box and we called a truce. what could this mean? does he like me

2007-07-03 16:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by Fook you 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband recently went on a trip to Shanghai (with his MBA class group) and several of the nights he was out REALLY late... like 2-3 a.m. late.

I was totally cool with it the 1st night, because I understand he was with a group and wanted to have a little fun. But I did tell himt that I hoped he wouldn't do it again... but he did, 2 days later.

I tried to explain to him that it wasn't that I didn't trust him. It wasn't like I think he was cheating or anything. But he is a married man, with a young child and he is a business professional. I just don't think he has any reason to be out drinking at bars in China at 2 a.m... it is irresponsible. What if he got mugged, or got his passport stolen, or was just in the wrong place at the wrong time?

After the 2nd time I was really angry - but instead of being sorry he was angry at me. Saying I was miserable at home without him... therefore I must want him to miserable too. He said I just didn't understand... am I wrong?

2007-07-03 16:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by Heather L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 16:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just can't talk about things with her that i would at school.i donno why though. i think she should be the one who takes the first step. like one day i talked about some pregnant woman but i can't just talk to her like i would to a friend..i don't know if that is really the case but im not soo comfrotable in talking with her about these things

2007-07-03 16:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-07-03 16:11:01 · 7 answers · asked by hnin 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my brother just graduated highschool and im still in nineth grade. my brother always drank since he was like in seventh grade. and just a few weeks ago my brother, his girlfriend, and his friends were offering me drinks. of course i've drank before..but when we all got drunk my brother was getting pissed after a while. i dont know why, but the next couple days i drank with my friend a couple times and my brother was being ridiculasly hipocrytical because he was saying he was going to call my mom and tell her i was drinking and he said he was going to take my drinks away from me when they weren't mine or his...even when he was drinking. and he is also telling his friends not to hang out with me even though they are only two years older than me. is my brother being just plain jealous and hypocrytical or just being overprotective?

2007-07-03 16:09:49 · 9 answers · asked by mmel; 1 in Friends

Hey, can someone please explain why homosexuals are allowed to adopt kids as it defies all logic.

Studies show, that kids brought up by solely a women or just a man are worse off emotionally, and do worse in school, generally speaking, than kids that come from a convential family.

Regardless if you believe in god or not, children can only be concieved by a man and a women - not two men, it wasn't intented like that.

Now, you can't say that this is discrimination. To illustrate this with an analogy, the best man for the job is the man who gets the job.
Why should the child be disadvantaged, there are queques of people wanting to adopt children and not enough children to go around, why should homosexuals get the kids when as statistics show, they are not best suited to the job. The childs best interests should be taken into account. THIS IS NOT DISCRIMINATION.

Some homosexuals may argue, that they are tender and intune with their feelings enough to substitute a womens role

2007-07-03 16:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family