i just can't talk about things with her that i would at school.i donno why though. i think she should be the one who takes the first step. like one day i talked about some pregnant woman but i can't just talk to her like i would to a friend..i don't know if that is really the case but im not soo comfrotable in talking with her about these things
2007-07-03 16:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I too feel the same way.But the only way to make mum a frend talk to her as if she were one of ur school friends.At first,u will feel very uncomfortable but after sometime it will be not as bad.U urself will want to talk to her abt all things.And believe me,she will turn out to be your best of best friends.Good luck!
2007-07-03 21:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a girl. Usually girls are more friendly with their mothers. May be you are scared about your mother or your mother is of having a conservative attitude. Anyway just start with small things at school and be with her when she is alone, cooking and all. If she is responding positively you can continue with more subjects. Remember one thing all parents will like to be friends with good children I mean at least your behaviour, your track records should match atleast above 50% with their expectations
2007-07-04 06:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha wow sounds like you don't really have a relationship with your mom. Talk to her and tell her that you want to talk to her and ask her for advise when you need it. Because she has more experience and you want to be more like friends that her always being a mother.
2007-07-03 23:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by livin life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it happens. Even my mom is like my "MOM" not a friend. I don't share everything with her but I share those things with my friends. I don't share those things which will hurt her because I don't want to hurt her. I share those things which will not really make her tensed. Like I don't talk about my crushes because she will whack me lol. So go ahead. Share simple things with her. Not everything! Good luck!
2007-07-04 03:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your mother as frankly as you can.
After the college/school expalin her about your day.
When she is alone ask her about her past. Before marriage. Her young days. Her friends.
Don't hide anythiong form yourside ie your frens, boy fens etc.
This will work. Surely
2007-07-04 03:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by de_raghav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE A GIRL THAT IS NATURAL THAT YOU WILL GET CLOSE TO YOUR MOTHER LIKE A FRIEND.
TAKE AND GIVE TIME AND REMEMBER IF YOU ARE IN ANY TROUBLE YOUR MOTHER WILL HELP YOU OUT IN ANY CONDITION
RELAX AND START TALKING WITH SOME OTHER SUBJECTS AND PROCEED SLOWLY
2007-07-04 04:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by ANKIT S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is not your friend, she is your mother. You can talk to her about anything. Just try it.
2007-07-03 23:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take the leap and see what happens.
2007-07-03 23:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus talk wat eva u want, make her happy, make her smile, tel cute jokes, solve her problems, keep secrets, be friendly wiv her to make her be friendly with u, but remeber there is a limit of talking things to mum...
2007-07-04 09:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u hav to talk to ur mom abt ur dos prbs
boz mom is alway faithful
she tell u wat u wnt to do
2007-07-04 05:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Amit G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋