2007-07-03 16:20:31 · 27 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, he can. But it doesnt mean he will be.
Same goes for women.
It kind of depends on how strong your love is and how much of your idea of love is based on sex. If youre a very "physical" person in that area, regardless of gender, you will be more likely to cheat. Same goes if the relationship is not strong.
But hey, true love is blind and unbreakable or so they say, so if youre really in love and not just lust (monogamous prostitituion as I call it) then yeah, anything is possible and can be overcame.
2007-07-03 16:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a long distance relationship, have been for 2 years and we're happily engaged and on our way to living together! It is all in the man... if he is a MAN not a dog yes he can be faithful. You have to know your man. I know my man, I know his heart, I know what he is capable of and what he will and wont do. It takes trust and faith in your partner and the relationship. If you have a solid foundation and you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that you two are GOOD then no you have no worries.
People tried to tell me, well what if he is cheating... how do you know? what kind of man can go without sex blah blah blah. A man can do any damn thing he puts his mind to. They are not BUILT to be disgusting liars and cheating creeps... they just CHOOSE to be that way. Its not in the genes to be a pig, its in the head and heart and loins. lol
BUT if you have had problems, or if he has had trouble committing or if he has cheated... well then that is different and is and can be a problem. It needs to be discussed thoroughly.
Truthfully most men are dogs... there are only a few who arent and who can and will be faithful. Its horrible, but true.
Hope this helps.
2007-07-03 23:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes he can.. I think the word love is used so loosely in society today that most people do not even understand what the meaning of true love is, If you truly love a person you could never be unfaithful .True love begins with a genuine friendship and commitment to one another and when you have that you would not want to hurt that person
2007-07-03 23:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is how that I see it: this is a two edged sword: I all depends on the committment between the two of you!!! a strong complete fulfilling relationship can survive anything!!! YOU both have the hands that you had before you met!!! and a reunion after a time apart will only lead to stronger bonding. The security of the relationship is the famous final scene!!!! BOTH THINK POSITIVE!!!!!! for if one stumbles, then there is no more, and just like gone with the wind---FRANKLY, MISS SCARLETT, I DON'T GIVE A DAMN!!!~!!~
2007-07-03 23:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by john j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
sidenote: I believe if the bond between the two is so great that you share a "special" kind of connection with each other, you know what each other is thinking and what is right and wrong he would be faithful, in my own personal belief.
2007-07-05 07:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I spend alot of time away because i am a soldier and as you know we are very busy at the moment. I have never felt the urge to cheat wherever i am.
2007-07-03 23:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by KayB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he can and should. If he is truly in love with someone, then she is all the thinks about and no other woman will "do".
2007-07-04 00:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well going by my situation he went all round the world for work swore he never cheated then at xmas chested with a woman who lives round the corner from him, now I wonder if he did have women all over the place, thats my pathetic ex
2007-07-05 03:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥**•.¸¸verbalkint♥**•.¸¸ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key word is TRULY and as I was for her only when
I was in the military and a lot of seperation took
place.
2007-07-04 00:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"True love" should mean you CARE about the other person, about their feelings as well as your own. If they hurt, you hurt. So, you would not do anything that would cause them pain or sadness.
It should make you happy to make them happy, and that is the strength to overcome selfish desires. In "true love" there just aren't any. Your desires are theirs, as much as their desires are yours.
If you, or they, are desiring something else, it is not "true love," it is something else.
2007-07-04 00:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lily451 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋