She was depressed from her childhood, I guess she was sexually assaulted, because of that she was always an ego maniac and a very angry person, Her husband was so nice trying to get her treated , but she threatedned him with suicide attempts ,and she threatened she would even kill her kids when her husband is not at home., she was physically and emotionally very abusive to her kids and her husband... the poor husband in this case looking for the kids safety left her alone ......after that she went thru psycho therapy and lived for last 2 years without being allowed to meet her kids..... she still loves her husband and wishes she could get her life back on track as she wsa sober for last 2 years ...... what do you think she should do, there was no any legal action in the family separation just happened without any doctors or cops involved and the husband took sole responsibility to support her so far.... but he doesnt contact her anymore ..... she is sober and wishes to get her family
2007-07-03 16:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but since her husband doesnt contact her anymore .... not even reply her emails and stopped communicating to her... she is really sorry for what she did but she realised everything too late after 2 years...... what do you think she should do..... she wishes to meet and live with her kids and they live with the husbands family ina different country and she loves her husband too much...... but her husband is scared to take her back....any solutions from you guys? ?
2007-07-03 16:24:32 · update #1
if she is found compent by doctors to raise her children they might give her tempory cousty to see how she responds to being there mother again this is very tought to answer only a judge as well doctors can really make that call i would give her a chance but i am not a judge in this matter i hope everything woks out for her really. as far as her family. in my opion?
2007-07-03 16:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in a marriage is a huge factor. Apparently her track record sucks and there isn't much reason for the husband to trust her "recovery". I would think she needs to move on with life because she can't force the husband to love her again. If he still lover her...he would still be in contact.
2007-07-03 16:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by P B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called "too little, too late".
Her hubby moved on, her kids are afraid of her & don't want a relationship.....
Sorry, but you can't undo the past!
She should just do one day at a time, and live her life without any of them.
2007-07-03 16:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you suggest?
What I meant is to make her do more the suggesting and planning than you should for her and try to guide her along the way. Her suggestions and planning may give you an idea of how stable or unstable she is.
2007-07-03 18:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she got serious issues. if i was dude i will move to china
2007-07-03 16:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋