Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

2007-07-03 16:03:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He have been cheating for over 7 years. I have had a stroke and quadtruple bypass, which my doctor say came from stress. What should I do?

2007-07-03 16:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by rubyhurting 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's mother is 65, she has 2 sons, one of which she has no contact with. She's a sweet lady but gulible to the point where she is a hazard to herself. She recently racked up a $7000 CreditCard debt to buy a dvd that was going to teach her to "get rich", her herbiolist told her she's getting radiation posioning by watching tv for half an hour, and that if she has the $ he will remove her old age spots on her face and make her look young again. She believes that actupuncture is going to restore her hearing. I have a feeling that if someone was to sing the right song and tune she would sign away her house if they asked just right. My bf and I are at a loss as to how to handle this. She doesnt want to listen to our advise or when we mention she's being taken advantage of she ignores us and thinks were lying. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to get this point over to her that her finacial future is at risk without destroying her self confidence?

2007-07-03 15:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for 12 years. Several years ago my husband and I were having some difficulties and we separated for a few months. During this time, the wife of my husband's best friend introduced my H to another woman. My H began seeing the woman. I know it wasn't a serious relationship, but I was still deeply hurt. I was also hurt because the best friend's wife has/is always been VERY rude to me and I don't know why. Fast forward to present day, my husband and I are getting along and trying to put the past behind us. However, he continues to hang around with his bf, bf's wife and many of the people who used to know the other woman. I don't know what to do because this makes me very uncomfortable. I try to be pleasant whenever I am around these people, but I always feel embarassed. I often find myself starting an argument with my husband so I don't have to attend any of his friends's parties/trips..and ultimately I just end up alone. should I just get over it..wwyd..thanks

2007-07-03 15:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Molly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I was married for about 6 years and recently the divorce was final. We separated for about 2+ years before we finalized it. now that its final and my ex and I both have other relationships he wants to hang out and calls me a few times a week. We have no children and didnt talk the whole time we were separtated with a few exceptions. Why all of a sudden is he wanting to be buddy buddy? I like him as a person but am confused...

2007-07-03 15:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by Miranda's Mommy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she, for some reason, has this insane thought that i only want to be with my boyfriend (who i have been in love with since day one and we have been dating for 3 years and plan on getting married in the next 3 years) for money. she tells him that i am only with him so that when we get married i can divorce him and take all of his money. she also told him that i am probably trying to purposely get pregnant so that i can hit him up for child support for the rest of his life. WHAT THE HELL IS HER PROBLEM? i have never done anything wrong to her or to my boyfriend. we have an amazingly perfect relationship..except when she opens her mouth... he knows not to believe her, but it really bothers me that she doesn't trust me and doesnt think that my bf should trust me either!

what do i do?

2007-07-03 15:56:04 · 19 answers · asked by tam d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-03 15:55:09 · 3 answers · asked by venus 1 in Singles & Dating

He acts as though when he's hanging out with me, his demeanor has to be top-notch. We're real cool friends and when he's with me its like... he's "humbled" or something. he 'straightens up'. (I usually just be myself around him.)

2007-07-03 15:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Nunya Biznuzz 3 in Singles & Dating

okay me and my friends are pranking one of our other friends we are making this fake guy who is gonna ask her out online (we told her i know him from my old school) we made a myspace for him but we need him to have friends
how am i going to make him have friends that we dont know??

2007-07-03 15:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by HS 2 in Friends

I'm engaged to a really great guy. We've had our issues in the past, but we are working through them. Recently, however, I've seemed to be attracted to the lure of other guys. Especially a close friend that I was involved with a few years ago. I ended the relationship with him, and I've never, ever looked back...until recently. Though we share a unique history, I thought I was done with him. Lately, I've become so attracted to him, and it appears to be mutual. I want to spend more time around him and just be near him. This feels like a crush, and I haaven't had one of those in years! I don't want to do anything to hurt my fiance, and I don't want to be physically involved with this other guy; I just want to be in his company...I enjoy being near him. I'm shocked at myself because I hardly ever have a "crush"...I don't even look at other guys...but I feel so overwhelmed when I think of this guy. How do I get him off of my mind?

2007-07-03 15:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 3.71 GPA in college (in the Honors Program), I've NEVER been in legal trouble, and NEVER been in a car accident that was my fault (I've been in one that was admittedly the other person's fault). I don't drink, or do drugs. And most of the time when I want to go out, it's within 20 min. of my house!
MY brother who is 23 y/o, has been in at least 2 car accidents that were his fault, has gotten at least 3 speeding tickets, he drinks, makes HORRIBLE GRADES, IS STILL IN COLLEGE, LIVES AT HOME and HARDLY does his chores... HIS RESTROOM IS SO DISGUSTING that when I'm not home, he USES MINE! His room is a complete mess as well! Got fired from his job, so he's JOBLESS! He has A.D.D., but he takes medicine for it... AND HE CAN STAY OUT ALL NIGHT! Sometimes he doesn't even come home until the next morning.
My parents say that he can do that because he is older, but age shouldn't matter. I am more responsible than he is... And even if age did matter, I should be able to say out past 10pm

2007-07-03 15:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I went on a date last Saturday with a girl I like very much, she said, "Oh, I really wanted to thank you for the roses!" When I looked thoroughly confused and explained that I never gave put roses on her doorstep, she realized that a guy friend of hers that obviously has a crush on her put those roses on her doorstep with my name on them. After dropping her off at home once the date was over, I drove over to the local Wal-Mart and bought a single rose (she said she likes one rather than many) and I wrote on a little card To: 'her name' From: 'my name' (the real one). I rang her doorbell and skedaddled out of sight. Girls, was this right thing to do?

2007-07-03 15:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 15:50:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 15:48:38 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my daughter is 7 yrs old and tries to act like a 2 yr old. She's very smart, straight A's all the way through K and 1st grade. But she has no common sense. She doesn't pay attention to any thing we say. I mean, she can ask you a question and as soon as she is finished asking she completely tunes us out. So the next thing she says is either "Huh?" or she is re-asking the same question b/c she didn't listen long enough to hear the answer. And she is always trying to get her little brother (he's 5) into trouble. She will purposefully tell him to do something she knows is wrong and then try to draw our attention to it so that he gets punished. Also, he is going into Kindergarten this year and I have been working with him on his letters and numbers, etc. She always tries to get in the middle of things like, "look Mommy, I can do this". I tell her that I am very proud that she can do it and I know that she is very smart but I need to work with him. I love them both so much.

2007-07-03 15:48:05 · 7 answers · asked by Valerie T 2 in Family

Ok my boyfriend of 3 yrs and I just got a house together and it is basically new inside new tile ,paint and carpet here is the issue his brother has 3 kids ages 7,2and8months he is 23 and his gf is 25 I know they are not ready for kids yet but when they go to other ppls houses they let thier kids run amuck getting dirty outside and coming inside only to mess things up inside they let the 2 yr old walk around with koolaid in her cup spilling it everywhere when i get anoyed and try to say something my bf calls me mean . it is not my fault they dont take care of them what can i do ??? i am only protecting our investment and i have mentioned it to the parents but they seem to not care HELP

2007-07-03 15:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by ANNA 1 in Family

I have a roommate who is picky every time I sleep and I snore a little which is not loud he calls my name which wakes me up and sometimes irritate me because I cant go to sleep. Should I tell him to f_ck off or what to do?

2007-07-03 15:46:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK, so I have made up my mind to divorce my husband of 11 years. We have been heading toward this for years. The thing is, he won't leave the house. We are living in it rent free, thanks to my parents. And he has gotten accustomed to my money paying for all the bills and all and his money going toward his hobbies. When I asked a law enforcer what I could do, he said nothing really because we were married. Thing is, I have filed for divorce, but he won't sign (or hasn't yet). How can I get him to leave my house. Because it is kinda like a drug addiction, I can't live with the drug and expect me to stay away. And he makes all these promises, like he has a million times before, but for some sick twisted reason, I get weak and want to believe him! I have 3 kids also. Help!!

2007-07-03 15:45:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-07-03 15:42:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 15:41:39 · 20 answers · asked by amethyst 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i tell my best friend i slept with her boyfriend?
We were just playing around and things got out of hand. I was always jelous of my bestfriend for going out with him when i had liked him for ages. I still really like him and he says he wants to dump her 2 be with me. If he does, does that make me a b%tch and a backstabber?

2007-07-03 15:41:01 · 21 answers · asked by wombats 2 in Friends

And what is it that players do?

2007-07-03 15:39:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright so this guy that has been like my best guy friend for two years is the best but he flirts with me all the time but he has a girlfriend. I like him so much well really i love him, and it seems like he loves me. We go to the movies together he always ask for advice from me and hes kissed me 5 times. Well i've kissed him and hes kissed me. I did like him in 5th grade for 3 month but he never liked me and know in 6th grade it seems like hes all over me. The thing is hes not as love affectionate with his girlfriend. I don't know if he loves me to or even likes me and just doesn't know how to tell his girlfriend or if hes just lookin for some girls to hit on, on the other hand when he gets bored with his own girlfriend. Please Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much.

2007-07-03 15:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Kylie D 2 in Friends

i used to have boyfriends for a long time. now that they're gone, i'm not used to being single. i feel incomplete. though i pray a lot, i still don't know how will i get used to it until the right guy comes. i feel bored without a boyfriend, but still, i don't want to have one right now because of my studies. i don't know what to do!

2007-07-03 15:37:00 · 18 answers · asked by arabelles 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls, give me some clues since it is so hard to understand you...

2007-07-03 15:35:44 · 7 answers · asked by goodman6079 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 15:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 15:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey I was just wondering what i should do.. Im 19 and my parents are getting divorced after 27 years of marriage.. and im at the age where I dont want to move out with either of them.. but since im still in school i have no idea what to do.. should i just quit school move out by myself and keep on working at club price for the rest of my life .. what would u do in my position..has anyone been able to go to school work and pay for rent?

2007-07-03 15:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He seems unable to leave his exgirlfriend although she abuses him and his mother. I AM PREFERRED BY HIS MOTHER AND BROTHERS. i am the one who gets invited to major family events i.e awards and weddings.

He wants me there but is still seeing the girl.

2007-07-03 15:31:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i asked a question in the parenting section theres alot of writing so i can't write it all again but i wanted more help and so i thought maybe people in this section could also help if they had any advice if they havn't already answered it because it could go into this section too thanks ...

2007-07-03 15:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family