how do i tell her?

Question

how do i tell my best friend i slept with her boyfriend?
We were just playing around and things got out of hand. I was always jelous of my bestfriend for going out with him when i had liked him for ages. I still really like him and he says he wants to dump her 2 be with me. If he does, does that make me a b%tch and a backstabber?

I told my best friend boy friend that i was going to tell her tonight and he said
it was a great idea and he would stand by my side

Answer 1

yes it does, and your going to lose your best friend over
a guy. better think twice next time. its not worth it.
boyfriends will come and go, but good friends are forvever.

Answer 2

Might as well come right out and her because it's going to come out anyway. Seems like you've had it in for her for quite some time and she wasn't all that much of a "best friend" to you. So what ever you think you're still a ***** and backstabber (like you know deep down) so quit trying to justify your deceitful actions. So what if you end up with this guy you say you like so much. Watch what happens when you get the same treatment cause he'll end up doing to you what you did to your so called "friend" You and him are a couple of real pieces of work who have set the stage for leading wonderful rewarding lives. Keep doing that sort of stuff and see how others start avoiding having you around. Enjoy each others company; you both deserve each other.

Answer 3

Well first off not to burst your bubble or anything hes not going to break up with her. I ve seen it happen a million times and they always say that just to make you feel good and so that they can always mess around with you. They like to play games like that nad that is why Guys can be asses. But I do think that was really messed up thing to do! If she is your bestfriend and you did that I dont think shes gonna see it as an oh well lets go shopping thing shes probably gonna be pissed! But u cant go back in time and I think you should just tell her what you did and if shes mad let her cool down cause if shes ur best friend she will forgive you eventually! Hope I helped!:D

Answer 4

Ok plz read this a do not be affended~.....REALITY CHECK: You slept with your friends bf...if yall where really friends..and if you truly cared about her you would have stopped it before it got to far!! Ok now nice Megan: i understand and so should your friend that people make mistakes and sometimes it is what it is!!! Tell her the whole deal ( dotn leave out n-e details cause if she finds out it will be soo much worse ) and just accept the concequences!! Thats all hope it goes well!

Answer 5

I am sorry to tell you this, but she might be your best friend, but you are not her best friend. Friends dont do what you did. Just keep in mind that what goes around comes around,how would you feel if one of your friends slept with your man?. If you care about the friendship you have be honest, and forget about that guy, there are many other guys out there.

Answer 6

The answer is: Yes.

Tell her straight. The boy is a cheater and always will be. If he cheated on her for you, he'll do it again, but you'll be in the hotspot. The best thing that can happen in this situation is maybe, just maybe, your best friend, after much grief, pain and sorrow, may forgive you.

Boys will come and go but friends should be forever.

Answer 7

Yes. And you now have to make a decisons, what's more improatan your friend or this boy? YOur friendship may be seriously damaged but that guy is not worth losing a friend forever. There will be no regaining your friend's trust after you get with her ex.

Answer 8

That is so mean of you. That is suppose to be your bestfriend and if i was her i would HATE you. There is no advice on saying that u slept with her b/f cuz either way thats hoe. If he breaks up with her to be with you then u would be such a *****. But if shes smart once u tell her she will break up with him and never speak to either of u again

Answer 9

OMFG! Kimberly! how could u sleep with jarrod? how could you do this to claire? u ******! U betta tell her! i thought u were her bestfriend? well at least she still has me. I know u have always been jealous of her and now u let ur envy get to you. Ur such a hoe!

Answer 10

We'll that is kinda bad... Maybe you should just tell her the truth. Remembet that friends do come before guys so be carefull. It isn't that nice to date the guy after he broke up with your best friend... Myabe you shouldn't tell her...