i used to have boyfriends for a long time. now that they're gone, i'm not used to being single. i feel incomplete. though i pray a lot, i still don't know how will i get used to it until the right guy comes. i feel bored without a boyfriend, but still, i don't want to have one right now because of my studies. i don't know what to do!
2007-07-03 15:37:00 · 18 answers · asked by arabelles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just keep your life busy with friends, homework, studying and other activities. as soon as you stop pining for a boyfriend, u'll find it easier, and perhaps more fun, to be single. enjoy singledom, especially when u don't need a boyfriend weighing u down and disrupting ur studies
2007-07-03 15:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by syara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How very sad that you feel like you are not a complete person without a boyfriend. No man should make you a whole person, ever. You should be able to stand on your own two feet no matter what the situatuion, and rely on your own hands, feet, and brains to support yourself. A man should fit into your life, not be your life. That being said, now you need to find out who you are. Spend some time with your girlfriends and hang out, and do the silly things you can only do with your girlfriends.
2007-07-03 15:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a free dating website which supports people looking for intimate encounters, then let the guys know you're not looking for a boyfriend, just some relief. You'll find more attention than you can imagine!
It's up to you, if you just want male attention but don't want the overhead of a boyfriend this is a possibility.
2007-07-03 15:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time doing things you like or haven't done in a while. That generally helps in times like that, also doing things with friends can help ease the itch for a man. You could always try new hobbies too. Just anything really to get your mind off it.
2007-07-03 15:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Darkkrystel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. Take up a hobby or study more. Go to the park or just sit back and listen to some tunes. Try to keep yourself busy is the key.
2007-07-03 15:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by ice38034 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to go out with a whole bunch of your closest friends and have a girls-night-out. Praying also helps, even if it seems like it's not, sometimes you just have to learn patience. Someone will come for you, don't worry.
2007-07-03 15:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Emmy Rachelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in your boat. i've been single the past 2 years and at first i thought it would be great after i broke up with my last girlfriend to be the old me again. it was for awhile, now to be honest i'm lonely and would love to find someone special and fun to be with. i have no time for one either trying to get done with school. i graduate with my undergrad december 8th and i need to just focus and girls just screw that up for me. but i'm so lonely lately ya know. i don't know what to do either i just can't find a good girl ya know. grand rapids michigan is a horrible place to find great girls. if you have any better ideas hit me back.
2007-07-03 15:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by thefinalcountdown21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to be on your own and self-sufficient, so that you don't feel like a guy needs to complete you. Then you will find the right guys
2007-07-03 16:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant find mr. right until you become ms. right.. so work on your studies and yourself and do things that you enjoy...
didnt you know some of the loneliest people are ones that have a girlfriend/boyfriend in the bed right beside them??
2007-07-03 15:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your friends a lot and try to go out as often as you can. It sounds like, a superficial thing, going out all the time, but, just go out and look around. If your studies are to heavy, just talk to your friends more often, and try not to focus on boys.
Good luck!
2007-07-03 15:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋