He have been cheating for over 7 years. I have had a stroke and quadtruple bypass, which my doctor say came from stress. What should I do?
2007-07-03 16:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by rubyhurting 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think he will change. He had his chance already. So sorry that happened. I know it is painful.
2007-07-03 16:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone!!! no he is not going to stop. He has been cheating for 7 years, he is doing it because you are letting him, and he has seen that over the last seven years you have still been by his side. If you are not respecting yourself enough not to put up with that crap, why should he respect you? Not trying to be mean, but there is no way I would let a man touch, kiss, or make love to me knowing full well he has been with other women. You should love yourself more than that. Get rid of him, don't you see what he is doing to you? Good Luck.
2007-07-03 23:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by lwomar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. Then exercise and lose weight. Get your health under control. While you are doing that, get involved with something you love to do. Its doubtful you had a stroke and clogged arteries from the stress of your husband cheating on you, but just in case the doctor is right, get rid of the cheating lying loser and take your life back.
Good luck.
2007-07-03 23:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your financial situation is but you should not put up with this situation. As it sounds like he is killing you and he is too busy having fun doing what ever he wants. But you must have shown him at some point that it was OK for him to treat you the way he does and you simply have lost control of your marriage. You need to pick yourself up and move forward and live poor but happy and figure out your financial situation later. what is more important your life or money you decide.
2007-07-04 00:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll never stop no matter how much counseling he might get or how much he may promise to. trust me. I have 8 brothers all still living and they all say once a cheater, allways a cheater. The real question is WHY are you still with him? if you are afraid of being alone get a pet. Even a flipping Gold fish, but drop the habitual cheater.
2007-07-03 23:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by victoria m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As painful as it is to acknowlege that your partner has no respect for his marriage vowels or for you, it has to be faced. Once you have done this you have to move on mentaly and physicaly, not an easy task but for your own health and sanity a necessary step. He obviously has no intention of making any life changes so you will have to take steps to make sure the life you have been given is as good as it can be and not plagued with lies and deciet from one who has promised to love and cherish you. Take the first step and the rest will follow, hopeing you will find love and peace as we all deserve.
2007-07-03 23:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by shirl c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry honey, but you DO NOT need him! He has cheated for 7 years?! Ask yourself, do you really think he will change after 7 years of deceiving you and ruining your health? Please leave the man while you can, you do not need all the stress and you deserve somebody who will love you and treat you right, not someone who makes you miserable and is killing you.
2007-07-03 23:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Pricilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not one to recommend divorce but this man is a repeat offender and he is abusing you by putting you through this, causing and complicating your health problems.
Get out baby. Focus on creating a good and healthy life for yourself. Make yourself happy and hopefully one day you will find someone who deserves you and treats you like a princess.
2007-07-03 23:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by hazel b grand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once might can be forgiven and worked thru, but if he is doing it over and over and seems to be "his way", he is not worth the stress to your health much less your unhappiness of having an unfaithful husband. You, everyone, deserves better than that. Send him packing...
2007-07-04 00:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is divorce ok with you? then divorce him. he should have stopped this kind of behavior when you had the stroke, and should have been taking care of you. get him out of your life and enjoy life without the stress caused by him
good luck
2007-07-03 23:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by unhappily married 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Why would you want to stay with someone who cheats on you and hurts you? If he cheats on you then he does not love you. Find someone who will treat you right and love you.
2007-07-03 23:39:23 · answer #11 · answered by sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋