Ok so I was married for about 6 years and recently the divorce was final. We separated for about 2+ years before we finalized it. now that its final and my ex and I both have other relationships he wants to hang out and calls me a few times a week. We have no children and didnt talk the whole time we were separtated with a few exceptions. Why all of a sudden is he wanting to be buddy buddy? I like him as a person but am confused...
2007-07-03 15:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by Miranda's Mommy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe it's that old "you dont know what you've got until it's gone" type thing. But honestly, you guys didnt work for a reason. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him what his intentions are. Then you can explain what it is you want him to do, whether it is to leave you alone or to realize that you guys are over and maybe you guys can just be friends. I would think it would be hard to be friends with an ex-husband especially when the two of you have seperate relationships now and you havent really been in contact for so long.
2007-07-03 16:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the phrase you don't realize what you had until it's gone? well maybe that's what he's feeling now that the divorce is a reality or maybe he liked your relationship better before you 2 were married without the commitment and he wants to rekindle that
2007-07-03 23:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by im whats up! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back. He would never admit it. You never want a drink until the water runs dry.
2007-07-04 01:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys have fun together as friends. he likes you as a friend but not a partner
2007-07-03 23:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grass is greener on your side of the fence. Move on, you don't need this loser.
2007-07-03 23:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be "the bad guy" it's for his own personal reasons.......
2007-07-03 23:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by BrusselSprouts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses spending time with you.
2007-07-03 23:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK I am confused with that 2
2007-07-03 23:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by LFMBFOREVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋