I've been seeing this woman for only a few months. I find her very attractive. She works at a local nightclub as a waitress. She says she's into Asian men and has date previous dates and boyfriends with them. It seems I match her type of guy. She also tells me that I look so sexy when I smile at her.
Whenever I see her, we talk very briefly, sometimes I buy her a drink, and we give each other a friendly hug whenever I step into the club and say goodbye. I stop by every once in awhile just to meet with her. She always tells me she misses me when I haven't seen her within a week or two.
Recently, she gave me her # so we can talk whenever we're not busy. However, I'm not sure if she gave me her # to talk casually or to make plans to see each other again. I'm kind of confused about this situation.
From what I observed, a question comes to me. Is she really interested in me? Is this a sign of a crush?
Well, which one is bad?
1. dating a cocktail waitress
2. dating a stripper
2007-07-03 18:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality matters.
More important, which one bothers you more between waitress and stripper?
2007-07-03 18:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a GENERALIZATION based on your ethnicity:
all conservative asians would consider dating either cocktail waitress or stripper bad and you know your parents would probably never approve of this relationship. Her job choice will cause issues between parents unless she has plans to change jobs.
Ultimately, the choice is yours but you just need to prepare of the obstacles that come your way.
She does seem flirtatious with you so if you like her and if you are ready to face the challenges, give her a call just to chat to see where it will take you.
2007-07-04 02:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by single_n_hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems she's definately into you, just be shure you don't come on too strong or u might scare her away.
and i don't think its necessarily "bad" to date either one, but i wouldn't go w/ the stripper, because while a career doesn't define a person, it does tell you a little about themselves.
oh, ya: TOTALLY PERSONALITY B4 JOB MAN!!!
2007-07-04 01:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say dating a stripper is bad, but if you like someone you like someone. You don't have any control over it. I say go for it.
2007-07-04 01:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for the personality, and watch who you are with
2007-07-04 01:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality
2007-07-04 02:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you find her attractive then personality.
2007-07-04 01:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by coltsayscowboyup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what she does ---- its who she is that is important and if you both get on then have fun
2007-07-04 01:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly - you have problems. you need to find help.
2007-07-04 01:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by KelSexyBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personallity..
2007-07-04 01:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by shockers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋