So she says shes going to Prescott tomorrow to go to a Rodeo with some old friend from work who quit a while back. But then I heard her on the phone talkin to him askin him what their plans were for tomorrow and I overheard her say "Oh you naughty devil that sounds like fun." and "Don't worry my husband won't suspect a thing." I think shes cheating and I don't know what to do. I know I don't all the facts but it sounds like it right? So do I leave her or ***** her out and tell her I know.. what do I do?
2007-07-03 19:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Brendan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've already been married twice before.. my first wife left me and my second wife cheated and then left me.. this really sucks. Thanks for all the help though.
2007-07-03 20:07:43 · update #1
I think she also lied about having her tubes tied. I'm afraid to ask her though because why would she say she did if she didn't. But anyway her sister is pregnant and I think she's jealous.. if they are tied I think she wants to get them untied. I just hope she isn't cheatin with this man for his sperm..
2007-07-03 20:11:09 · update #2
My first wife didn't cheat on me she just fell out of love with me. My second wife cheated and tried to tell me the kids weren't mine when they were.. then she left.. I really didn't give a **** about my second wife.. don't know why I married her but I really love my wife and I know I should get evidence and leave her but its so hard.
2007-07-03 21:43:28 · update #3
My first wife didn't cheat on me she just fell out of love with me. My second wife cheated and tried to tell me the kids weren't mine when they were.. then she left.. I really didn't give a **** about my second wife.. don't know why I married her... but I really love my wife that I am married to right now and I know I should get evidence and leave her but its so hard.
2007-07-03 21:44:13 · update #4
Afraid so dear. You could follow her considering you know where she is going --then you'll know for sure. When you bust her leave her cheating azz. You deserve better!
2007-07-03 20:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she leaves, the locks will be changed when she returns. Tell her that you know what she is up to, and she has only one chance to save the marrriage. Tell her that you are willing to attend marriage counseling with her, but if she is not going to try to work this marriage out, get out of it and let you find someone that will love you and be faithful to you. Ask her how she would feel if you had done this to her.
If she leaves, change the locks, and file for divorce. We can't make the one we love, love us, but we can certainly make sure that they do not have the opportunity to use us or disrespect us!!!
Next time take a bit longer, and open your eyes a lot wider, before jumping into a marriage.
I am so sorry that you have to endure this pain. Good Luck.
2007-07-04 03:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not deal with this question too much. You are a husband, aren't you? What is being a husband? It is having a wife with who you can make love when you want, or have common children. If you can make love with her when you want, and you are satisfied, do not let to disturb yourself by her programs. Maybe he is cheating on you, maybe not. If she comes home do start to make love with her, and that means that you are the husband and not else. Or, if you are unsatisfied sexually that is an independent problem. Then you should solve that problem with her.
2007-07-04 05:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once shame on you, Fool me twice shame on me!
But if this is the third one, would it not be time to find out what is wrong with your love making?
Take your camera phone or camcorder and follow her. Take the video for evidence for the divorce court. Then take some lessions. I would not like to be the one who tells people that I was cheated on three times by three different wives. Sorry.
2007-07-04 03:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her in a really calm way as possible, or you can go after/follow her tomorrow so you can see with your own eyes what's she's doing so that way you can have the facts in your hands then that will be something you need to think about if you want to leave her or stay. good luck.
2007-07-04 03:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by ReinaDeCorazones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes she is cheating i would let her go to prescott while shes gone pack her stuff and put it in a storage container and overnight her the key to were ever shes staying in prescott.....so yes no doubt get a divorce lawyer
2007-07-04 03:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by michael g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the day off work, and announce to her Surprise honey, I'm coming with you, I'd love to go to the rodeo. I'm sure your friend won't mind.
2007-07-04 04:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you follow her to Prescott and sneak around and get a view of things?
2007-07-04 03:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and really make the point that it could be all over if she ever does that again and that you will be watching with anything you can get your hands on!
2007-07-04 02:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalk her movements and find out for sure before taking any drastic measures.
2007-07-04 03:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by ms_stolli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋