never been down this road but i am really feeling antsy, got to do it.
2007-07-03 19:51:33 · 16 answers · asked by trainingday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
*Nods* This is completely understandable. I watched a show called 'The Bi-curious Woman'. Focused on one woman and her husband (married for awhile & in their mid 30s with children). For years she had fatansies about sharing intimacy with another woman. The obvious first step for her was to come out to her husband and I was surprised because the husband accepted his wife's wanting for the other side of the fence. Sure he had felt awkward, but who wouldn't, but he supported her.
Anyways, she and her husband goes into this program where she meets other woman to do 'intimate' things with. But what I'm getting at is at the end of the show she still completely loved her husband, she would never stop loving him, and she explained her attraction to woman as just 'fantasies' she needs to explore.
-So, does your husband know about your bi-curious nature? If not, you should tell him, he is your partner after all.
Woman are sensitive and more open emotionally and yeah the sex is different, but when you get down to it, the gender doesn't matter because we're all made of the same materials. Only difference is the more inclinced female vs. male personality. Yet personality is individualized anyways.
Definitely explore! You only live once ^-^
2007-07-03 20:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men dream of a three some. If you talk to your husband about it he would most likely be turned on. It well destroy your marriage most cases no matter how it turns out. Good luck send us pictures. Sorry the devil made me say that. I hope you do not have any children. If not just do it. Let the perverts know how it turned out. My second long term relationship was your age and I was younger. She had 3 kids from an other man. She turned lesbian and offered me a three some after we was split up. I turned her down I am a one women man even though if I was born a women I would have to be a lesbian I like women so much. I enjoy lesbian porn but would have to leave my girl friend if she cheated on me no matter if girl or guy. I wish you a long lasting three some and prove me wrong.
2007-07-04 03:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are planning to cheat on your husband after 16 years of happy marriage. Are you sure satisfying your "antsy" feeling is worth breaking up your family over?
2007-07-04 03:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask your husband if he is interested in a threesome. If he wants to experiment then find another woman willing to play. This will allow you to try it without totally ruining your husband and marriage. If he is against it totally (not many would be), then you have to decide if you are discreet enough to get away with cheating because if he catches you...
Enough said and good luck with your experiementing.
2007-07-04 03:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too bad you want to end your marriage to be with a woman. What an ultimate slap in your husband's face. Sure hope you don't have children.
2007-07-04 02:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is still cheating whether it be with a man or with a woman. How would you feel if your husband decided to cheat on you with another man or woman???
2007-07-04 03:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it, and if you have a willing partner (hopefully someone you're comfortable with), try it.
I'm bisexual, and it really opened up my mind a lot the first time I was with a woman.
2007-07-04 02:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
One thing is sure. You should discuss this with your husband, and ask him to help you. I am almost sure about that he will be helpful.
2007-07-04 05:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy days.....
Al-right....Giggity Giggity
2007-07-04 02:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever happened to vows and commitment, huh? Are you trying to convince yourself that it's right just because you want to try another woman?
One word:
DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 03:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋