My husband and I have both been married previously, we both have children with our ex's, but none together. Does any one find it odd that My husbands ex wife took pictures of my kids (which has nothing to do with her and she lives in another state) off of my 360 blog and put on her myspace page? Why would she possibly want to, and she even put under my son's picture her own childs name???? How should I handle this or should I say anything at all?
2007-07-03 01:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, this is odd. There is no balance when someone wants to steal your life as there own. Obviously she has a problem with reality and has not moved on from her ex husband. Sometimes people have a hard time getting over situations that they feel guilty over. Perhaps she made a lot of mistakes with your husband and she knows it. Regrets can make some weak individuals live in the past. On the question of commenting to her or not - only you can decide. How much can you take from her? How might it effect you and your family in the future if you do say something? If you don't say something, will she continue to live in a fantasy world and pretend that your life is her own? There are questions only you can answer or time can answer. I have a feeling that you are a strong and caring person though and I bet no matter what you will figure out the best way to handle your "ex-wife" problem. I will pray for you and your family. Best of Luck!
2007-07-03 09:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Full of Hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not find it odd that she would have pictures of your children as they are her kids "siblings".
The name mistake may have been nothing more than that, a mistake.
I know that I love my stepdaughter, a child of my heart, as my own and would lay down my life for her just as I would for mine of my womb.
This is not always the case and I am extremely fortunate that my children all get along as if they had been together from day one. This is not to say there are not typical arguments.
Your husbands ex may just care about your kids because of their place in her own children's lives.
You may want to mention the name mistake to her and offer to email a picture of all the kids together and/or one of her son that you have so she can replace the one of your son with her son's name underneath.
2007-07-03 01:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are step brothers or sisters and part of her childrens life. While the name thing could be a mistake she might have done it to make it seem like they were related. I would ask her the reason why.she did this. I must say that I dont think anyones childrens pictures should be on anyones blog anywhere.
2007-07-03 02:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to tell her to take your child's picture off of her myspace. You can explain to her that myspace is a public forum and you don't want your child's picture out there for the public to see.
Yes, it's odd that she did that and I can't see why she would. Just tell her to take it off of her page.
2007-07-03 01:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might feel that you are taking her children away from her. What she is doing is childish, but maybe you should be a woman about it. Ask her why she did it and if she will remove it from her page. If she doesn't, then tell myspace so that they can have your pictures removed from her page.
2007-07-03 01:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont knwo hwo u guys get along, but perhaps she is trying to accept that techinically your kid and hers are kinda like brothers and sisters. maybe she made a mistake ont he whole name thing. I am also with someone who has kids and so do i. I put pics of his kids on my myspace too. we only see them every other weekend but I want them to feel just as equal as my own...
2007-07-03 02:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds psycho. Make your online profiles available only to friends. Anything you put online is public. Anyone can save pics of your kids. Pretty creepy. I have no idea why she would do this but I wouldn't give her the option of doing it again. Good luck :)
2007-07-03 01:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband to talk with her about this. It is wrong. And, I know you are proud of your children, but please don't post their pictures in public places. You know what his ex has done, you don't know what total strangers may be doing with the pictures.
2007-07-03 01:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE u shouldnt be insecure about such things...may be mention this to ur husband saying that shes going crazy in a non serious manner
2007-07-03 01:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really weird and I would tell her to remove it pronto. It sounds like she has issues with you being married to her ex. I hope this is not the beginning of troubles for you with her.
2007-07-03 01:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋