if he says he like talking to you what does it mean does it nessceserrily mean he has feeling for me or is it different i am willing to give myself to him but he refuses to use a condom he says he could pull it out so i wont get pregnant should i trust him or not we only know each other beacause his sister is my cousin does this seem right plz help me
2007-07-03 07:49:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he refuses to use a condom i wouldnt have sex w him. if his sister is ur cousin .... wouldnt that make him ur cousin as well? u shouldnt be having sex w somebody unless u love them.
2007-07-03 07:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ happy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his sister is your cousin then honey, I got news for you, he is your cousin too! That in itself is just plain wrong on so many levels. Also - why would you even think about sleeping with a guy that refuses to wear protection? Just think about all the other women he has probably slept with without using protection! You are just asking for an STD. Pulling out does not prevent pregnancy! Do not believe that! You are obviously too young to put yourself in this situation. Grow up first and then make a proper decision.
2007-07-03 14:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thinking of trusting a guy to pull out when you've only met him once??? That would not be the brightest thing you've ever done. If a guy says he likes talking to you, it may just mean there's potential there. Or, judging by the fact that he's already trying to sleep with you, it may mean he's just trying to get you in bed. DON'T TRUST HIM! If he's not willing to wear a condom, don't let him do it!
2007-07-03 14:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, none of that sounds right.. you've met the guy one time and you are willing to give yourself to him? For what?? He likes talking to you, probably bcuz you've made it clear your easy to get in the sack.. you need to get some self respect and not be talking to guys about sex AT ALL that youve only met once.. sleeping with him should be the farthest thing from your mind.. and he doesnt want to use a condom.. gettin pregnant shouldnt be your only worry.. do you have ANY idea how many sexually transmitted diseases there are?? Not to even mention HIV..
Do you normally give it up so easy? Guys DON'T like that.. they will act like they like you and trust me its just to get some!!
I cant believe that you arent even ashamed of yourself for posting this question.
I need to stop now.. I just cant believe how low the self esteem is in some of you teenagers.. are you even in your teens? If you were my daughter I would be so disapointed!!
You need to find a man that respects himself as well as you!!
2007-07-03 14:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trusting the pull out is risky and you could still get pregnant. Get on the pill. WHooooooa his sister is your cousin!?
Doesnt that make HIM your cousin too!?
If you have any family relation then no way dont do it.
2007-07-03 14:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his sister is your cousin.... wouldnt that make him your cousin as well? If so... dont do it. Thats weird. Im guessing its not though... just a typo so in any case DO NOT do it with him without a condom... there are things worse than being pregnant... like HERPES. Also, if you like him, and then you screw him before you guys are officially "dating" he will never date you. You will end up the FUQ BUDDY. I dont think you want that.
PS> are you a virgin? If so... you should wait for someone you love!!!
2007-07-03 14:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by fuqaree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!!! Dude, if his sister is your cousin.... hes your cousin to. Regardless, No guy should be putting that much pressure on you after only meeting once, hell after meeting 10 times!.... Did you go on a date or something? Make him wait, whats the big rush? If he really likes you then he will respect that!
PS: It would be much easier to read your question of you used some punctuations. Just a tip.
2007-07-03 14:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by tippytetoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no condom then no sex. Simple as. Also ask him why wearing a condom is so bad? What an idiot he is. Just ignore him seriously!! Any guy that says he will just pull out is an absolute idiot. There is a very very very high chance you will get pregnant.
2007-07-03 14:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by tootie88fruitie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Even if he pulls out in time, you can still get pregnant and are still vulnerable to STD's.
2. Despite his best intentions, he may fail to pull out. Sexual climax is a powerful influence and the brain's "pull-out" order may be no match for it, especially when most of the blood is elsewhere.
3. You just met him. Do you trust him that much? Maybe he has no intention of pulling out.
2007-07-03 14:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by DW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. Do not listen to him, pulling out does not prevent pregnance, he is taking advantage of you and you are obviously too young for any of this. DO NOT SLEEP WITH THIS GUY. Don't let him touch you and if you are.....(fill in the blank) enough to let him, FGS Demand a Condom.... and if this guy is your cousin you shouldn't be messing around with him in the first place
2007-07-03 14:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out does not work. Are you ready to have a baby? Is he ready to be a daddy? Condoms also help protect against STD's. Has he been tested for STD's? No, he doesn't have feelings for you, he is only looking to do you. And if his sister is your cousin, isn't he also your cousin. Please respect yourself too much to do this.
2007-07-03 14:57:28 · answer #11 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋