Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

I am Catholic, getting married in a Catholic Church. My fiance is Baptist with a lot of Baptist kin and friends. We are having Communion at the wedding, obviously non-Catholics cannot take Communion at Mass just as Cathlolics cannot take Communion at any non-Catholic churches. Some of his family are basically saying, they plan on taking it anyway which is a really big no no. It looks like we might actually have to stop them at the actual ceremony if they try? So whose job is that and what are we supposed to do?

2007-07-03 08:59:17 · 51 answers · asked by Whiskey Tango Foxtrot 4 in Weddings

he told others that we were not compatible. Yet I text messaged him and he replied back. He has never told me that he thinks we are not compatible. Why would he do that?

2007-07-03 08:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I work with two African-American men who choose to only date Caucasian women.

2007-07-03 08:58:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I loved this girl when I was at school and she did used to send me signs cross the class like looking at me and she ask me out but everone told me she didn't love me and this guy went out with her and yeah I got very very Jealous and they made me watch them kissing each other and she come round my house try to sort it out with me but I was so so Jealous I was just playing up by acting like a kid and I was getting my own back on to them anyway they went to court with me which I won and that was the last time I saw her when she cry, when she cry deep down it hurted me to. 7 years last this past march we both walked each other way and her new posh boyfriend went inside of a shop and me and her was just looking at each other in the eyes and it hurted when he got hold off her hand and walked past me but has she walked past each other we couldn't keep our eyes of each other and we didn't give each other no black looks. how can I show her I have changed and that I have grown -up

2007-07-03 08:57:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i need a lot of help! I have never been on a date before and i l will just be getting back vacation at like 2 and i am going with my bf at like 5...for the 4th of july something not to dorky but very pretty....i wear make-up (not to much not to little)...i usually wear like a shirt with a cami under it..but can u pleae help!! any ideas i basically have a lot of clothes to choose from..so suggesion please!

2007-07-03 08:56:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i LOVED, and expected the reponses to my ealier question... so i called my 'so-called' bf and broke it off....FELT GOOD!! THANKS GUYS...now my next question... the 'guy' that i want to start dating has not called back... we did not sleep together or anything.. but i did spend the night last night and we just held each other all night, there is a definate connection, we both love nascar and pool... we decided to spend the 4th together watching movies... i have left him one message this morning, (went straight to voicemail) i tried to call a few more times througout the day, and still... straight to vm.... i do not have a cell or a home phone...(keeping in mind, we 'somewhat' planned to spend the evening together, and for it to carry over to the 4th.) should i call and tell him my apt. name and number and hope he stops by... am i over reacting, i know this guy likes me... am i just fishing for attention because of my recent brake-up, PS, he recently broke up with his gf too.

2007-07-03 08:55:49 · 9 answers · asked by tracy 3 in Singles & Dating

If a shy Asian guy (decent looking) has a crush on a Latina girl working at Quizznos, he is thinking writing a note to her? should he? Or what should he do?

2007-07-03 08:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to hang out and drink with two of my favorite guys the other night..Got totally wasted and got into a verbal fight with one of them over nothing..After that settled down I ended up with his phone somehow, and sent a text message to his ex saying "I love you". He is very sensitive about that situation because he still isn't over it, and he got super mad. He hasn't spoken to me since even though I apologized ot him, and told the ex I sent the text message. This guys also owes me $135 I loaned him, so I am also somewhat suspicious he is using this as a cop out not to pay me back. What should I do?

2007-07-03 08:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by mizzy 2 in Friends

recently i got a few D's on my report card and im normally a A and B student so is my freind when i told him he kinda chuckled to himself and now he like brings it up all the time and kinda makes fun of me or teases me about it and it doesnt make me feel very good. we have been freinds since kindergarden and i dont want to end the freindship but just stop him from teasing me can any1 help???

2007-07-03 08:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he plays with my phone and all my suff he tries to get the password from my phone is tyhat flirting and messing u all kinds of ways like
bump into u or play with ur hair and he like me to touch his nipples but i refuse

2007-07-03 08:52:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

answer please.
thanks

2007-07-03 08:51:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to write my own vows. But the problem is, I don't even know where to start. I know my how I feel, and I can normally word things very well. But when it comes to this I feel that I may not be able to put my words in the correct "form". I just don't want it to sound like rambling mumbo jumbo. Advice anyone?

2007-07-03 08:50:49 · 24 answers · asked by Shaina W 2 in Weddings

2007-07-03 08:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by badunkadunkhunter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In high school some of the girls picked on me because I was fat, nerdy, with glasses and too quiet. At college now I have big muscles and I use contacts and I have the baddest urban wear. Some of the girls who teased me in high school wanted me and when they asked me too, I turned around and dumped them and laughed at them. I could tell from their reactions that there shocked, embarassed, and angry. Is this great revenge?

2007-07-03 08:48:41 · 29 answers · asked by NBA Man 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I really hate getting so upset, especially at these little things, but it's frustrating when my husband does these things over & over...i.e.: breaking dishes and other nice decorative things in the house constantly, not knowing how to handle the crying baby, putting the kids back to sleep when they've just woken up from a nap, son carrying a knife around and husband says "he just didn't see him"....he can be so careless and we always end up fighting because i'm always upset at these things! How can we change? Is it normal for me to be upset at these things, especially when some of them happen over & over? My husband wants me to be happy and not so moody, but it's very hard when his carelessness continues!!! What should i do?

2007-07-03 08:48:34 · 14 answers · asked by amaus22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this beautiful girl in a community college class, I started talking to her and found out she is only 17. Im 21 and i feel kind of weird now that i know what her age is. I thought she was my age when i first met her, because she seems so mature, and besides she's in a college class. So now im caught with mixed emotions. Should i continue trying to get to know her or should i just let it go. . .

2007-07-03 08:47:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a goatee for a while now and I think I want to shave it off. In general what looks better, facial hair or clean shaven?

2007-07-03 08:45:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has turned really horrible on me and is going to the teachers accusing me of doing things that i havent even done! So now i am in serious sh** for no reason- help!!!

2007-07-03 08:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by x-xemzy_babyx-x 3 in Friends

I'm getting married on Saturday 7-7-07. I was just couious on if anyone else was getting married on that day too. I know alot of people are I just wanna know about people on here.

2007-07-03 08:43:24 · 17 answers · asked by mrstseko 2 in Weddings

I am a filipina myself married to an american for twenty some yrs. but another filipina is trying to break my marriage. am not saying that she is the core of the problem but partially responsible for the fact that she knew the man she met over the internet is married...

2007-07-03 08:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by butterfly105 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i was going out with this guy by the wayi am 17 and he is 18 and we where out on a date at mcdonalds all of sudden this realy big fart comes out of my butt hen i think i pooped cause i was so embrassed i went into my car i looked in my pants and saw brown spots then i was so embaressed i left
the next day hecalled me back asking why i left then i said because i farted then he said he did not mind i was too hot for him to care about that by the way i am hottt so any way do you think i did the right thing by going on another date with him

2007-07-03 08:42:56 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Luckily, we haven’t made any major plans for the wedding. However, I have to ask. How do I get over it? He’s always been one to struggle when it came to careers since we have been together. Before me, he has had really good jobs. Granted, he’s kept a job but not a really good one. Well, two months ago, he received the ideal job for him. Then all of the sudden, his interest in me changed. All the times I have been keeping our family (my child from someone else & his two children who does not live with us) afloat the past four years, now he doesn’t meet on the financial table together half way. When he gave money to me for the household, it was like we were roommates instead of a family. When it came to time together, we stop going out. We didn’t make love as much anymore & he started staying away from the house more. In two months, the relationship just gave out for him. I tried everything I knew to do but he started staying away more than coming towards our relationship.

2007-07-03 08:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Heaven 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's summer and everyone is doing all sorts of different things. So I thought it would be fun to have a bunch of my friends sleepover at my house. Normal right? There are five girls I want to have over. But there's this girl who I am sort of friends with but can be real mean and cause a lot of "drama." I dont want to invite her because I know she'll cause problems and I want the sleepover to go as smoothly as possible. But if I dont she'll be SO mad at me and she's one of the people who can hold a grudge and make it easier to be okay with. What do I do? Any advice? Please, serious answers only! I thought she was nice i n the beginning of the year so we became close friends but then I saw what she was really like but I knew I just couldn't dump her all together because that'd be too mean. So basically she thinks we are like Best Friends whereas I find us just friends. She actually can be nice when it's only two people but... Please help!!

2007-07-03 08:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Maddster 3 in Friends

what to say

2007-07-03 08:41:02 · 1 answers · asked by carndog 1 in Friends

When I started middle school I had plenty of friends and I was making more but about 3 months into school I got really sick and had to be put in home schooling. My friends drifted away because I couldn't see them very much. And since only my close friends knew what had happened to me everyone else just thought I was ditching or faking. So they didn't like me even though they didn't know me. Now 2 years later I am supposed to start 9th grade in september. I am afraid of entering high school when no one likes me and I have no friends. How can I make friends when I get there if everyone is already in a group or clique?

2007-07-03 08:40:47 · 26 answers · asked by Kara B 5 in Friends

I'm only 21..I have no desire for sex. and to be quite frank its not really something i've ever really enjoyed doing except in the beginning of my relationships. It seems like the longer I'm with someone the less I want to have sex with them. And most the time sex is quite painful! That makes me hate it all the more...I'm not on any medication and i don't have kids. so whats really going on here??

2007-07-03 08:39:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I was 24 I dated a girl who was 17. Before you start calling the cops 17 is the legal age here in this state. and no we didn't "go all the way". she was a virgin and I respected that. What say you?

2007-07-03 08:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It flows so well that by the time its ready for the bride, she comes down the aisle at the climax of the song. Its classical. Mozart or some other.

2007-07-03 08:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by bethriipchick 1 in Weddings

which feature on a man do you find attractive, or a feature that just does it for you?

2007-07-03 08:35:35 · 43 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Singles & Dating

wedding website of Bethany Vanlaauen and Joseph Everson

2007-07-03 08:34:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings