i LOVED, and expected the reponses to my ealier question... so i called my 'so-called' bf and broke it off....FELT GOOD!! THANKS GUYS...now my next question... the 'guy' that i want to start dating has not called back... we did not sleep together or anything.. but i did spend the night last night and we just held each other all night, there is a definate connection, we both love nascar and pool... we decided to spend the 4th together watching movies... i have left him one message this morning, (went straight to voicemail) i tried to call a few more times througout the day, and still... straight to vm.... i do not have a cell or a home phone...(keeping in mind, we 'somewhat' planned to spend the evening together, and for it to carry over to the 4th.) should i call and tell him my apt. name and number and hope he stops by... am i over reacting, i know this guy likes me... am i just fishing for attention because of my recent brake-up, PS, he recently broke up with his gf too.
2007-07-03 08:55:49 · 9 answers · asked by tracy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is your question?
2007-07-03 08:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep calling him!! You will weird him out! You left him a message leave it at that. You said he had just broke up with his g/f right? Maybe he is not looking to be hounded all the time. He said he'll hang with you, and if he meant it, he'll call. You hit the nail on the head when you said that your fishing for attention. Your right. Give him space. Cuz the last thing a guy fresh out of a relationship wants is to have someone constantly calling him. Slow down. Relax. Take a deep breath and chill. Let him work for it!!
2007-07-03 16:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by handvict81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you BOTH are just out of a relationship with other people. Stop looking for a rebound like a little ho-bag and let him do his thing without you hovering around. He may want to be with you but he has to get over his break up too.
And furthermore, this is 2007. How can you NOT have a cell or a home phone? I'd go nuts without my cell.
2007-07-03 16:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, do some "my time" things and give him a break. It could be he broke up because the other girl didn't let him breathe. Use your head and be cool. Aren't you worth it? I think you are>
2007-07-03 16:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT keep calling him, you'll scare him away. Play it cool, if it works out then great.
2007-07-03 16:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is to be patient and wait a while to make sure you are both over your exes. if you are not both over you exes, it's gonna be a mess of a relationship.
2007-07-03 16:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by 14bert14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u know wher he lives then u can run over and give ur apt and number....otherwise idk...good luck
2007-07-03 16:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have other plans or he's not interested.
Good Luck
2007-07-03 16:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tracey, You are two people alone so sure you can fish together and hook hearts !
2007-07-03 16:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋