I loved this girl when I was at school and she did used to send me signs cross the class like looking at me and she ask me out but everone told me she didn't love me and this guy went out with her and yeah I got very very Jealous and they made me watch them kissing each other and she come round my house try to sort it out with me but I was so so Jealous I was just playing up by acting like a kid and I was getting my own back on to them anyway they went to court with me which I won and that was the last time I saw her when she cry, when she cry deep down it hurted me to. 7 years last this past march we both walked each other way and her new posh boyfriend went inside of a shop and me and her was just looking at each other in the eyes and it hurted when he got hold off her hand and walked past me but has she walked past each other we couldn't keep our eyes of each other and we didn't give each other no black looks. how can I show her I have changed and that I have grown -up
2007-07-03 08:57:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't want to hurt no-body but just I still love her and my heart as always been with her and it was there before this posh guy come , I can I win her heart what should I say I want to heel her not to hurt her I think I need a fe-male advise on this. I have grown up but how should I show her I care about her we met ever since we was 11 i'm so un-happy I can't stop thinking about her she means alot more then my own life to me. when she cryed in court it also hurted me too what should I say to her next time I see her I still got feelings for her and everday I just sit down and think of her all the time there is a part of my heart whats missing and thats her, I can't stop thinking about her, ever morning I wake up till I go to bed at night I always think of her and thinking what is she doing now ! and like last night I keep dreaming about her , why does it still hurt deep inside of me
2007-07-03 08:58:08 · update #1
with everthing what happen for 2 years it made me so so ill deep dow nand the only thing I wanted is to show her can I do something and that is to make it in the fame world now im not sure if thats silly or not but its in my heart to show her i can do it, cause she hurted me so so bad that I was thinking of being somebody to show her, I don't know my feelings are so mix up right now I hate her but same time I got feelings for her and I just want to shout at her but same time I love her what can I do I mean she means alot to me all I think about everday is her, I'm feeling sick and ill i'm missing her that much I just want to cry my heart feels cutt open deep
2007-07-03 08:58:51 · update #2
actions speak louder than words',GO GET HER!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-03 09:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show her that you've grown up by leaving her alone. She's not interested in you. Sorry, but that's the truth. It is time for you to let this girl go and move on with your life like a REAL grown up. She has a boyfriend, for crying out loud! Stalking a girl that's got another guy? That's not what being a grown up is about! Resign yourself to moving on. Avoid her. Keep yourself busy. Hang out with your friends. Get some exercise. And give yourself some time. You'll get over it. Everybody does. If you keep obssessing about it, then you might consider talking to your doctor about it, because it is not healthy or normal to keep obssessing over something you cannot change. When you are ready, then you can go find some other girl that IS interested in you and love her with all your heart instead. That's how the love game works. That's life.
2007-07-03 16:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow that's a lot of information. well to start off, please make sure you are absolutley in love with her, and this isn't just some awkward teenage hormones coming back to get you. but in your case, i don't think that's the problem. listen whatever anybody tells you online or whatever, if you felt a spark, no one can tell you u didn't. now the more important question is if you think she felt the same spark. if she did, then fate will handle the rest. but of course, fate isn't always the right way to go. win her back, amke her fall in love with you. maneuver charm with manners, and she'll be yours. but don't be to forward while she's still dating mr. posh. and if you want to prove your not the smae kid, that now your all big and bad, just tell her. do something sweet. call her up on a holdiay. email her on a special occasion. just be sweet. but take it slow. remeber this, one roandom act of kindness at a time, can grow inot something much more. in other words, the small acts of kindness that you give to her, could kindle slowly into love. that is what you are to do. but then again, it's just advice.
2007-07-03 16:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Born stubborn! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give one more good 'ol try...Write her a handwritten, short note about how you still feel and how much life has changed for you over the past years and you feel like a different person who would like the opportunity to see her again, even if it is just over "coffee" or a drink (whatever).
You'll never know dear, unless you try - ONE MORE TIME. If no response? Well then, you have your answer and can move on in your life, and remember this is, just another one of life's lessons for you.
Goodluck dear...
Grace
2007-07-03 16:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her all the stuff u said in the question! it was very heartfelt.
2007-07-03 16:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Alexa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop watching wwe?
2007-07-03 16:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by 14bert14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hold her and tell her.
2007-07-03 16:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋