In high school some of the girls picked on me because I was fat, nerdy, with glasses and too quiet. At college now I have big muscles and I use contacts and I have the baddest urban wear. Some of the girls who teased me in high school wanted me and when they asked me too, I turned around and dumped them and laughed at them. I could tell from their reactions that there shocked, embarassed, and angry. Is this great revenge?
2007-07-03 08:48:41 · 29 answers · asked by NBA Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No revenge is "great" - because it never makes up for the harm and hurt done and speaks to the less worthy side of yourself most of us have and would like to get past in our lives.
You didn't feel good when they were doin it - and I can't believe you really feel good now by dumping back on them, do you?
This isn't what life is about with good relationships, whether loving, friendship, sibling, parental.
It isn't about clothes, muscles dear...it's about being the best person you can be FOR YOU, and being able to place your head on the pillow at night and be glad you did your best that day, and pray to do better, if indeed, you were your worst.
Grace
2007-07-03 08:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess if that is your ambition in life. Personally I never give anyone like that a second thought. It's good to know that you still have no life other that to seek petty revenge on people in your past. Now you have turned into the very mean spirited, cruel people they were then, congratulations
2007-07-03 15:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WoW!,
If I spent my time plotting revenge on everyone that picked on me in high school, ....... well I'd be a shallow, shortsighted, pig of a man. Oh wait - that would be you wouldn't it?
Why are you wasting the time / energy doing this when there are plenty of other college women out there looking to get their fill of a young, buff college stud.
Your attention is misplaced. Everyone does stupid things in high school. Then they grow up. Others contiune to do stupid things in college (and later in life). Which category do you wish to fit in ?
2007-07-03 15:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no that's mean. Dont hold on to things that happened years ago. You're letting it control you.
I know it sounds cliched but forgiving someone isn't a gift to them, it's actually a gift to yourself because it allows you to let go of hurt.
Believe me, i know where you're coming from, i was a high school geek too and ended up marrying a gorgeous woman
2007-07-03 15:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Brad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess they were asking for it, but instead of just dumping them, u could have told them why. U should have been more honest and say something like, "u like me so much now, I'm no different from 3(or w/e) years ago. so if u only like me for my looks, u shouldn't care if I'm as cruel as u r."
2007-07-03 15:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing your full of sh*t and still are fat, nerdy, and still use glasses. i knew jocks in college and they were never online because they were too busy playing ball and f*cking every girl on campus. but i think it would be interesting if what you say is true because that would mean you've internalized all the years of torment and are still "fat, nerdy, and wear glasses". lol, that kind of ugly is forever...
2007-07-03 15:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ian from CT 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm glad u took revenge that way, instead of buying a gun and getting revenge that way- remember VT. people that have the hardest childhood are revengful because thats all the think abt.
2007-07-03 16:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Its me again 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wanna say yea cuz i been there man. but its gonna bite u in the ***.
sum of these girls were immature back then and ppl really start to grow in college and in the years after. you definitely dun wanna burn a bridge to sumone you may well have a future with.
2007-07-03 15:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by jcjunkact 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt waist your time and energy on trying to get revenge.. and being ugly to people is not the right thing either.. just be yourself.. you can always say 'remember how mean you were to me before" but no need to go out of your way to be mean.. never know what the future holds..
2007-07-03 15:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
College boys are so mature!...doing nothing and letting them drool over you and regret making fun you would have been the best mister.
2007-07-03 15:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋