I went to hang out and drink with two of my favorite guys the other night..Got totally wasted and got into a verbal fight with one of them over nothing..After that settled down I ended up with his phone somehow, and sent a text message to his ex saying "I love you". He is very sensitive about that situation because he still isn't over it, and he got super mad. He hasn't spoken to me since even though I apologized ot him, and told the ex I sent the text message. This guys also owes me $135 I loaned him, so I am also somewhat suspicious he is using this as a cop out not to pay me back. What should I do?
2007-07-03 08:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by mizzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Guess you already knew you kinda blew it - especially by nailing him knowing FULLY WELL how "sensitive" he is about his situation with an ex. Yeah, he may never repay you, then again, its not about the money, is it? -Or, IS IT?
You'll have to keep after him if its about money, I'm sure. If you really feel you've lost a friend due to bad behavior, you need to give him a little more time to cool off and then go once again, and apologize for making an as* of yourself and hurting him.
The choice is yours...
Grace
2007-07-03 08:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say dude listen I got wasted I ended up with your phone. I made a dumb mistake by texting your ex but you owe me money so pay up and if you don't then I'll get the cops involved. Dont say plz then hes gonna say ooooo ya know i dont have dat much money right now ill pay at the end of the month then you'll neva get the money you give him a week and if there is no money then you go to court or call cops and tell them the situation. Hey email me back and tell me whats going on if you tell him what what im telling you to say. Email me even if you dont and tell me what ur gonna tellll him i can help you on other things to!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-03 09:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two things are not related. Anyway, let me tell you a little life lesson : DON'T LEND MONEY TO FRIENDS IF YOU WANT IT BACK. Got it? Next: DON'T GET TOTALLY WASTED. Look what happened! You were out of control, you interfered with someone else's business that you had no right to do. If you were my daughter I'd be pretty sad about you (a) lending money and (b) getting trashed. Settle down a little and find fun with other people. Find some hobby or something interesting to do other than hang out at a bar with two losers.
2007-07-03 09:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by sleepyhollow50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one he has every right to be upset with you but consider how he owes you money i would suggest that you try to apologize again because obviously what you did was a very hurtful and you took it to for. The most you can do is ask him for the money he owes you and if he's gonna use what happened as an excuse. Just tell him that has nothing to do with the money he owes you and you'd like him to pay you back like he said he was. Good luck!
2007-07-03 08:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got wasted and said some things and did some things that you probably shouldn't have. The damage is done. The ball is in his court now. If he doesn't forgive, then that's his choice. I would ask for the money you loaned him, but I wouldn't be surprised if I didn't get it back.
2007-07-03 08:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money has nothing to do with the argument ... He still owes it to you, so make sure that he pays you.
If he wants to end the friendship over the argument then that's fine, but get your loot.
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2007-07-03 08:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kelley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing, pretend the money is gone. See if he does the right thing, but always be the bigger person. Sending the message to the x was a shitty thing to do on your part. ..
goodluck
2007-07-03 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to and admite that you were wrong and try to get him in a good mood then let a couple of days go by or weeks and ask him for the money!!!
2007-07-03 09:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa u r in deep ****!
time will heel him and as long as u know its u at fault but uve said sorry all u need to do is wait for huim to except it.
think of oit this way, the money is a peace offering!!! :D
2007-07-03 09:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound to me like he is trying to cop out on paying you. It sounds to me like he is truly hurt by your actions. Give him sometime and try apologizing again.
2007-07-03 09:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by hootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋