2007-07-03 08:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by badunkadunkhunter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to get her to open up about her own fantasies. Don't just jump right in, it might frighten her. But you might be surprised to find out she wants to try those things too. Just talk to her openly one evening while you cuddle. A husband and wife should be able to be open and share secret feelings like that. And ultimately, we all want to please our spouse, especially in bed. Try asking what she likes, it will open a conversation so that you can each share what you enjoy, don't particularly enjoy and things you'd like to try.
2007-07-03 09:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe start simple with flavored lubes or tingling oil. Try a lovers games like Spicy Dice. Have her go to pureromance.com and pick a few things she would want to try. Whatever you do, don't rush her and make sure she is comfortable. If she feels weird, she will most likely hold back.
2007-07-03 08:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by pretty_mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never happen, pal.
If they don't do that stuff of their own accord, they think it's stupid or silly. You can never "talk a woman into" lingerie or dancing for you or new sex and have it hit and stick. Not saying she wouldn't do it for some other guy under different circumstances, but it won't be happening for you. Such is life.
You got vanilla - you better learn to enjoy vanilla.
2007-07-03 10:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her. Sometimes a woman questions her own sex appeal or look and causes her to shy away. Let her know how hot she is. Be specific. A satisfactory response will be not far behind.
2007-07-03 09:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by RickNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her, maybe she is feeling the same way but feels maybe you dont want to get a little freaky. She might just surprise you.
2007-07-03 08:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by the_kikione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married and then have these thoughts. It is too late for you. However, if you really want to expand your horizons, take a vacation to Hedonism in Jamaica.
2007-07-03 08:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore her and she will get creative to get your attention back.
2007-07-03 09:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the lead--dont go to far out,keep it real
2007-07-03 08:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋