is it considered slutty if you've gone to fourth base before you've graduated highschool?

Question

answer please.
thanks

Answer 1

That is really something you need to think about before you do it. I think it is better for someone to wait until they are married to have sex. There are so many things that can happen that you are not ready for as a kid. You need to just be a kid. Ask yourself a serious question because you get into bed with a guy. Ask yourself if you are prepared to have a child. It doesn't matter how many precautions you take -- you can be on the pill and use condoms and still get pregnant. You can get an STD that doesn't have a cure. You can be stuck with that for the rest of your life. If you have a child, you will forever be a mother. Nothing will ever change that. I do think it's wrong to have sex so wrong. I think you should wait.

Answer 2

I don't think it is considered slutty if you've had sex before graduating high school. Nowadays kids are having sex earlier and earlier, it's kinda natural for kids to have sex during high school. I'm 17 and i lost my virginity when i was 16...so i know what you're thinking. You also have to consider different people's ideas or morals. Some people are going to think that it's a bad thing to have sex before graduating high school and others think the opposite. As long as you're safe and prepared to suffer the consequences if they happen, then enjoy yourself. I hope this helps you out.

Answer 3

Many of us still believe, that sex where there is no love is kinda stupid, no matter what age you are...If you've been in a committed relationship with a guy all this time and it happens, that is one thing - if you're doing it all over the place, that's quite another and definitely, would qualify as "slutty behavior" to say the least.

Grace

Answer 4

Fourth base? Sweetie, there are three bases and the home base. In other words, if you done the mattress mambo, you've scored a home run. Is it slutty? Depends on with who, how many, how quickly/easily you put out, and whether or not you actually used protection.

Answer 5

First off, there is no such thing as fourth base.

Secondly, if you mean you had sex, then no. It would be bad if you had a very high number of partners, meaning you meet a guy and sleep with him without getting to know him. But again, that becomes acceptable after high school as well.

You're fine.

Answer 6

I dont think it is slutty if you are in a commited relationship because teenagers can choose to be responsible when in an actual relationship. although, it is a little more slutty if you have gone 'all the way home' with a guy that, for instance, you don't even know.

Answer 7

I don't believe that making it to "fourth base" is slutty, don't make it easy to make it to fourth for others. Listen I've made mistakes before you don't want to look later down the line to say I wish I never done that. Take It So! BE GOOD!

Answer 8

Not really because a lot of teens do engage in this. However, I must be a rare exception. I'm 18, and I haven't tried to do anything with anyone as I am waiting for the right person, and I don't find it attractive when other girls do things like that at this age... Just entirely too soon for me.

Answer 9

I wasn't aware there was a fourth base. Wouldn't that be home? I'd say no, unless you were with the whole football team and proudly tell everyone about it.

Answer 10

what do you think is the real question. If you feel that it is wrong which apparently you do because you are asking I would reevaluate what you are doing. And focus on more important things. Like your future a career, what about college? Forget about the boys they are not going anywhere