2007-07-03 08:27:42 · 17 answers · asked by Golden Mask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no because I feel that if you really love someone you wouldn't do anything to hurt them like cheating
There are no excuses for cheating
only excuses I would accept from my partner for having relations with someone else is because of rape
cheating is not right nor acceptable to me
2007-07-03 08:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by CuriousStacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a tough question. So here is my input. I have forgiven a cheating lover before. Everything was great and I thought things were better than before. One day I thought I would do something romantic. So I took off work early to come home and cook a nice dinner so when he got home from work there'd be lit candles on the table and a nice dinner and then a good evening to follow. Well when I arrived home with the groceries, He'd taken off work early to and was in bed with someone else. He was caught in the act. So, long story short. I would not forgive another cheater. Kick the trash to the curb. You deserve better in life.
2007-07-03 15:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by chris_noblett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. She didn't physically climb in the bed but she lied about a so-called "friend." If you let that one mile stone trip you up and slow you down, then you might as well quit everything you start and fail at. Relationships are the exact same. If I woud have dumped her, we wouldn't be making it to our 3 year mark and talking about kids. Just think about the long run before doing anything you won't forgive yourself for.
2007-07-03 15:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by LaNic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on how deep your relationship was with the cheater and how much love there was to overcome the obstacle. but i certainly think that cheating does not have to be a relationship ender. it just takes change on both sides. it also depends on why your lover strayed...
2007-07-03 15:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by taryn s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that and I guess in some cases they could truly be sorry and can regain your trust, but after the reconciliation and I had forgiven him, it happened all over again! Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me! I just don't know if I could do that all over again! It hurts much worse the second time than it does the first!
2007-07-03 15:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because if they loved me so much they would have never cheated on me
I would forgive them but i won't take them back
2007-07-03 15:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by tenone2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt forgive him....he hurt you intentionally. If you truly want him I would make him earn your trust once again and thats hard to do but he wants you he'll do it!
2007-07-03 15:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by divers_godeeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No people never change and if they think that they can get away from it the first time don't you think they will try their luck again.!!!
2007-07-03 15:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nope never no way!!
stay clear and say u just wanna be friends, they should back off then!
2007-07-03 15:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never. If his actions don't match his words, he might as well be a little kid.
2007-07-03 15:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋