Why do girls find it so wrong for their man to look at porn? My husband does and i don't really care whats the big deal the only time i cared was when i asked him to do something and instead of doing it he looked at porn but i was more mad he didn't do what i asked. Should i care that he looks at porn it doesn't stop his interest in me any.
2007-07-03 10:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We watch it together or alone and we don't have a computer at home ( thank goodness - I'd probably be the one stuck on that thing looking at naked boobies .. lol ) so it's not a big issue in my house.
I can see if he was ignoring my feelings and masturbating to porn instead of sex ... and not communicating with me ... I would have to speak up ... other than that - it turns me on too so until that day comes - I'm keeping the PORN ... lol ... !
2007-07-03 11:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man, but that shouldn't matter really should it? I believe that for the most part, any woman who's got that big of a hang up about porn is feeling threatened and therefore has at least SOME insecurity issues. I mean, it's a movie for Pete's sake! If the man doesn't take it any further, than what's the problem? Have you once read a question on here from a man who is tired of his wife/girlfriend watching porn? Because take my word for it, there are allot of women who do. Gawwd if it weren't for women there would be very less porn in the beginning. So all in all, I would say that it's a failure on the woman's part to realize it in any other way than a threat.
2007-07-03 11:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same way girl. I see so many questions on here from women desperate to stop their man from looking at porn. I personally don't see anything wrong with it as long as it doesn't become a problem for his wife or unless he's being disrespectful to her. Now I DO think a guy should stop if it's truly bothering his wife. No amount of porn should be more important than his wife's feelings. And some guys truly do have a PROBLEM with porn. They look at it for hours a day - that's a big problem and would be for me if my husband did that. But just looking at it every now and then? Come on! It's just pictures on a screen of fake, plastic women who have been digitally perfected. They're not real and they're not the ones bedding down w/ your husband. If you're that repressed, chances are you're not pleasing your man in the bedroom either. Men are creatures of fantasy and like to indulge in that a little - big deal.
2007-07-03 11:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am secure enough in my relationship that i don't care if my man looks at porn. i grew up knowing what it was and that it was just natural for a man to watch it so to me it's no big deal. i think a lot of women are just really insecure because of the big push to be thin and pretty and all that so they forget that men really do look past all that.
2007-07-03 11:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by crystal g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am fine with my man looking at porn.. as long as it doesn't become an obsession or illegal then i don't care what he looks at..
Don't worry you are not the only girl who doesn't mind her man looking at porn.. after all girls look at it to
2007-07-03 12:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would just wonder why he is looking at Porn?
Why does he feel the Need to look?
And how would he feel if the tables were turned?
If you looking took time away from the things you do?
I guess those questions are what I would be thinking?
2007-07-03 11:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTTOM LINE: If you're getting all the sex you need AND your husband still looks at porn BUT doesn't cheat, then what the hell are you complaining about? What's the big deal????
2007-07-03 10:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont' think it's wrong of them to look at porn, i think it's the insecurity and jealousy in us that makes us upset about it, it doesn't bother me when he looks at it when I'm with him but if he's watching it without me it makes me feel like I'm not giving him enough or I'm not doing something he wants,,,but my hubby does not watch it often at all,,,i keep him to busy
2007-07-03 11:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with my man watching porn. As long as he doesn't have a problem with my toys.
2007-07-03 11:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by sdgirljen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a theory.
Many women use sex to get what they want from men.
If the man views porn he may releave himself of some of his sexual frustration. The less frustrated the man is the harder it is to get the man to do what woman wants him to do.
So porn is bad because is weakens the control women have on men.
2007-07-03 11:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋