i know i was wrong! i had a best friend for quite long time maybe around 4years!we shared alot but things got pity worst when she started been jelas on me i went to her house once and her mom was there she liked me alot and was giving me compliment because she found me pretty so that made my friend upset and the whole time i was at her place she didnt talk to me so well..i felt as if my legs got heavier and i couldnt move out and leave! i left her friendship after that and probably never told her what went wrong..i came over to london and went back home after some months saw her on the street with her mum and ignored them both!she talk to me online that what was wrong with me! After sometime i came to know she came to london for studies as well! we recently started talking i dont know why i want her back and make things good and tel her what went wrong i also asked her to meet me but she doesnt want to reply nor she wants to talk about it but she is good with me! what can i do to make
2007-07-03 09:59:36 · 2 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make things work...will it be a good idea making her understand what went wrong...i dont want to sound desperate to her....i was always good to her...but she always was jelous on me! will she be k to hear the truth?
2007-07-03 10:01:29 · update #1
well if you want to be true friends you should tell her truth because thats what true friends are for and if you feel you hurt her then tell her your sorry for what ever went wrong you wont sound desperate. just slowly bring your self closer to her.
2007-07-03 10:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a purely male perspective you terminated a friendship for no reason at all. Maybe you should forego even trying to explain to them why you vanished and just see if your returned presence in their lives would be welcome. They may be skeptical, so prepare yourself for that and be gracious. And remember, every idle thought in your head isn't necessarily reality where others motivations and thoughts are concerned. We talk to each other for that very reason: we're piss-poor psychics. If you talk to people you don't have to wonder what's on their minds, they'll tell you.
2007-07-03 17:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋