We started living as BF/GF but now we split. We share the same appartment and we love each other but he doesn't want to commit. Last night we end up having sex and now I'm really confused. We broke up just a few days ago and i'm not still used to the idea that i'm not longer his GF. I really love him but he was honest with me " I love you but I'm not ready for a long term relationship. I don't want to make you lose your time coz i think i will never be ready"
I just want to believe that things can work and he will change his mind one day. I know i'm still too young to think like this is the only man i want to share my life with. He's older than me 15 years and he was married once but was over ten years ago. Should I stay with him and be patient or should i move on
2007-07-03 20:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by chococat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Be thankful that he was honest with you and cut your loses now. You should be with someone who can give you what you need.
2007-07-03 20:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by chiquis707 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you want more than he is willing or able, to give. If you can accept the situation, stay. If not, pack your bags, and fast. It really is that, simple. Waiting for someone, to come around, is never a good thing, to do.
2007-07-04 03:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by whatnext 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Sleeping with him and living with him is just asking for heartahce. He told you he would never be ready to have a real relationship for you, so listen to him, and find somebody who will.
2007-07-04 03:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honesty is one thing and using someone is another, he certainly does not have any interest in you. Its just SEX and thats it. You have already given him enough time. if he changes his mind and want to marry you, he can always contact you. you are sensible enough to make the right call
2007-07-04 05:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ordinary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely move on. He doesn't want to commit but does want to use you for sex, so don't confuse that with love. You deserve better!!
2007-07-04 03:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Starla 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think no one can tell u what to do because u shuld get in to answer ur self .i know most of the people would tell u to break up for so many resones and the most important one is ur age gap .in my openion he has been so cruel to be whit a geirl so younger than him.but it is only u who should recognize it and save ur self.
2007-07-04 03:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by lili h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't believe this and you're not going to but it seems that you BF was using you. Or plainly, he's not worth it. Follow your heart. Only you can make the RIGHT decision!
2007-07-04 03:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON MOVE ON MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He doesnt love you, he's not going to change his mind... the sex is too good.. thats all he wants. He proved that by breaking up with you and then ******* you and then saying that he still wants nothing to do with you. kick him out or leave. you deserve someone better!
2007-07-04 03:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by WindChild 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be just as confused as you. Give him a bit of space... like a few days... then talk to him about what happened...
2007-07-04 03:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mom 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
move on girl!...hes to old..and..cant commit..screw that find someone around your age and have fun
2007-07-04 03:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋